32Flushing, United States
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My self-summary
In dreams everyone including me wants to love and to be loved. I have been living by myself for almost a decade so it may be difficult for me to change the way I am and to get used to someone else but if I will really like someone I am willing to try. I am very selective when it comes to dating and overall I believe that it is better to be by myself than with a wrong person.
I realize that according to my passport I am 32 although I still feel and live more like I am 21 lol Unfortunately most of the guys look more like 40 by the time they reach their 30 and it is soooo not ok. It looks like most of the guys simply do not care about their health and look and are too lazy to work out. I am not interested in guys like that for sure.
I want to meet positive, smart, interesting and easy going people who would not try to dictate me how to live. It is good to be with someone but everyone needs a personal space too. I am a strong person and I want to have a strong man next to me.
In some way I am a contradiction: rational but impulsive, easy going but dominant, nice but sometimes I may be explosive, book and movie addict but a party animal, etc. I am not afraid of being myself even if it does not go along with what is expected from me. The life is too short to worry about the stereotypes, conservatism and religion.
I am not looking for someone who is perfect but my nose is pretty sensitive and not that small I know lol I don’t expect a guy to smell like roses but common he shouldn’t smell like shit and should take a shower daily for sure. I don’t like stupidity and although I don’t tend to judge people I am not going to date someone who is stupid or does drugs.
I like dancing but if he doesn’t like or cannot dance it could be nice to go dancing with me at least like once in a blue moon…he could stand like a tree and I could just dance around him lol I like karaoke so if he is not comfortable enough to sing along at least he should be ok to let me sing regardless how bad I am lol And he should be ok with the fact that most of my friends are Asians.
I want to find a man who wont lie and wont betray and will know how to care about someone else instead of being focused on himself only. I am not looking for getting laid on this website. Also if you are into games and drama don't waste our time.
What I’m doing with my life
On one hand I live by myself for many years and I am very independent. On the other hand I still don't know what I am doing with my life and what I want from it. I could say I just go with the flow and trying to do something new and interesting to avoid daily routine.
I’m really good at
Cooking, being funny, shopping, being a pain in the ass
The first things people usually notice about me
My height and my accent
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Dan Brown, Johanna Lindsey, Elizabeth Boyle, Catherine Coulter, Nora Roberts, Julie Garwood, etc
I love comedy, adventure, action, fantasy and romance. There are too many movies that I like such as True Lies, Terminator, This Means War, While You Were Sleeping, Letters to Juliet, Grown Ups, Couples Retreat, Die Hard, Twisted, Fast & Furious, Underworld, etc. I really love movies with Louis De Funes, Adriano Celentano, Jean-Paul Belmondo, etc.
I am addicted to sushi and Korean BBQ. In general I am in love with food but I am not a fan of Spanish and Indian cuisine.
Six things I could never do without
Shower, cell phone, gym, laptop, a sense of humor, good food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Horace Walpole's quote "This world is a comedy to those that think, a tragedy to those that feel"
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends, watching movies or reading a book
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think I am more independent and responsible than most of people that I know
Sometimes I have a very explosive temper but I am trying to control it
I am very impulsive sometimes
You should message me if
Easy going, witty, possess a sense of humor, drama free, white or Asian tall single male or you need a friend to hang out with (by a friend i mean just a friend and nothing like kisses, etc.)
The two of us