49Zürich, Switzerland
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My self-summary
American, but living in Switzerland for many years. Deeply interested in arts and music, politics and books...all the more so in a lowlit bar with good company...
What I’m doing with my life
Working, reading, taking long, solitary walks on city streets when I need it. Falling into musical obsessions.

I love good sensual writing. That certainly goes back to discovering Anaïs Nin at my local library when I was a teenager. Now I get to do my own writing.
I’m really good at
Never being bored. Engaging personalities very different from mine. On a good day, doing a bit of provocative, sensual writing with style ... just because I like it.
The first things people usually notice about me
Openness to anyone who is willing to be open, and still giving it a go with those who aren't.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Moby Dick, Mad Men, Jane Austen, William Faulkner, Fassbinder, Hitchcock, Cat Power, Sinatra, Andy Warhol, Louise Brooks, Flannery O'Connor, Francis Bacon, Kafka, Nabokov, Led Zeppelin, Johnny Cash, Shakespeare, Shakespeare, Shakespeare, Joy Division, T-Rex, The Smiths, Oscar Wilde, Erika Lust, William Gibson. Dostoyevsky. Bauhaus. Mary J. Blige. Ray Charles. William Burroughs. Anais Nin, Hieronymus Bosch, Harpers Magazine, PJ Harvey, Marlene Dietrich, Jean-Luc Goddard, Egon Schiele, Lucien Freud, Mozart, Otto Dix, Joan Crawford, Uffizi, Georg Grosz, Grimes, Sammy Davis Jr. Goldfrapp, Lana del Rey, British Museum, Charles Bukowski, old Micky Rourke movies, Steampunk, Tate Modern, Kunsthaus Zürich, MoMA NY, Museum of Natural History. NY Public Library, Louis CK, Kurt Weill, XX, Public Enemy, Edward Hopper, David Lynch, Patti Smith. Mostly I like it when someone turns me on to something completely new.
Six things I could never do without
My kids
News and non-fiction
Good clothes
Big cities
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The years, the moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Wandering around Zürich, looking for a good movie, meeting up with friends or running along the lake.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I want to create mood like some of the artists, writers and musicians that have touched me over the years. That is aiming high, I know. But when I do write, I try to do it with texture and depth.
You should message me if
You like good conversation. You have music to share. You like long stories that aren't too long, bad jokes that aren't too bad.

You have a Goth sensibility.
The two of us