38Skindeep, Niemandsland
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My self-summary
Extroverted introvert or maybe the other way around. EJFP if you're into four random letters in a row.

I've moved to Ditmas Park so my user name should now be Ben11226. But it isn't,

I've got my own logo.

I can pun you under the table. I'd make an old-timey pun right now, but I don't want to date myself.

Concerned about the state of the world. Disproportionately concerned about subway etiquette.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a writer, and I've got a niche (which I pronounce, correctly, as "nitch"). I've been on a lot of road trips, and have spent the night in 49 states. Big fan of regional snack foods bought in gas stations.

I've lived in NYC for 14 years and love it now as much (or more) than I ever have. I also hate it now as much (or more) than I ever have. Choose love.

Stairs over escalators. Walking over subway transfers. Trains over planes. It takes me a long time to get anywhere.
I’m really good at
Appreciating high and low culture equally

City exploration




Being a nice guy, getting drinks
The first things people usually notice about me
My Red Hot Chili Peppers logo neck tattoo.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read a lot, usually have three books going at once and why are there these magazines everywhere? Currently reading the Old Testament and, man, do I have a lot of questions.

Music has and always will be one of the most important things in my life.I like heavy riffs and/or acerbic lyrics. Whenever I have time to spare in a city I've never visited, I go to the record store(s).

I'm a Film Forum member. Favorite movie is a tie between The Shining, Aguirre Wrath of God and How High.

I am very excited to see the new Twin Peaks. I would love to tell you about Mary Hartman Mary Hartman and my resultant appreciation of Louise Lasser.

As for food, going out to eat is just about my favorite thing to do in this city. My culinary parameters are unfortunately not quite as wide as they used to be, but I remain the sort of person who will say yes to everything it is possible to say yes to.

Six things I could never do without
a erbacks
aula oundstone cassettes
the letter "p"
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the giant bi-pedal cow that gave me a half-dozen roses on Valentine's Day.
On a typical Friday night I am
wondering when my songs are gonna come on the jukebox.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I was 11 I urinated on sauna rocks and it ruined the sauna experience for everybody.
You should message me if
the spirit moves you.
The two of us