I've had plenty of "it's not healthy, it's a disease, and it's disgusting; I don't really want anything to do with someone like that!"
It's one thing if the person in question can't even move... Now THAT is bad! But a lot of people with ANY kind of disorder needs help and support, and there are overweight/obese people putting effort into leading a better life... Chances are, you might have just happened to spot them at a stage in their process.
And for those that are happy like that... My personal opinion? Whatever torques their tweeter (if that is what makes them happy then good for them! Minds and hearts can change any moment if they decide otherwise).
Me? I've started a path to lead a happy, healthy life and I refuse to beat myself up over my exterior appearance for what other peoples opinions are in relation to weight/obesity/bbw variables... I don't owe anyone an explanation for that except to MYSELF and my own body as well as to my potential future. I don't want to become "twiggy" by any means, but my goal is to be happy and do things for my mind and my body that is healthy and uplifting for me... Like belly dancing, exercising, eating healthy, and my drawing/painting... LIVING LIFE for ME and doing whatever the hell I want! ^.^
Movies: Romance, Documentary, Suspense/Thriller, Mystery, Cartoons, Comedy, Drama, Foreign/Independent, Sci-Fi, Musical
Food: American, Barbecue, Chinese/Dim Sum, Deli, French, German, Greek, Indian, Italiano, Japanese/Sushi, Mediterranean, Mexican, Seafood, Soul Food, Southwestern, Thai, Vegetarian/Organic, Vegan (You get the idea hehe)
And... I always reserve the right to own a rubber duckie at any point in time.
Waffles or Pancakes?
It's an innocent enough question... Perverts! ;p
Also, I'm not interested in casual hookups.
Just because I message you or respond doesn't necessarily mean I want to "jump your bones".