Benign_Artist
27 Eureka, United States
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My self-summary
Generally an easygoing lady who like a good laugh or two! Looking for potential friends and pen pals, and maybe someone to have a future with. Who knows... Either way just hit me up and awesome sauce!
What I’m doing with my life
Well, at this time I'm taking a siesta from school. I was working on my AA in Social and Behavioral Sciences. I plan to transfer to either Humboldt State or Southern Oregon to work on my BA in Psychology. I'm interested in possibly entering an Art Therapy field working with small children and young adults. Currently working for a non profit organization assisting native Indians economically. Also been trying to lead a happier healthier life!
I’m really good at
At being good at some things? It depends on the situation... :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm one fluffy bbw! I am not going to hide the fact, (kinda impossible to lmao!).

I've had plenty of "it's not healthy, it's a disease, and it's disgusting; I don't really want anything to do with someone like that!"

It's one thing if the person in question can't even move... Now THAT is bad! But a lot of people with ANY kind of disorder needs help and support, and there are overweight/obese people putting effort into leading a better life... Chances are, you might have just happened to spot them at a stage in their process.

And for those that are happy like that... My personal opinion? Whatever torques their tweeter (if that is what makes them happy then good for them! Minds and hearts can change any moment if they decide otherwise).

Me? I've started a path to lead a happy, healthy life and I refuse to beat myself up over my exterior appearance for what other peoples opinions are in relation to weight/obesity/bbw variables... I don't owe anyone an explanation for that except to MYSELF and my own body as well as to my potential future. I don't want to become "twiggy" by any means, but my goal is to be happy and do things for my mind and my body that is healthy and uplifting for me... Like belly dancing, exercising, eating healthy, and my drawing/painting... LIVING LIFE for ME and doing whatever the hell I want! ^.^
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Alternative, Big Band/Swing, Blues, Classical, Dance/Electronica, Easy Listening, New Age, Oldies, Pop/Top 40, Reggae, Showtunes, Soul/R&B, World Music/Ethnic, Soundtracks, Acoustic, Indie (I'm pretty open-minded)

Movies: Romance, Documentary, Suspense/Thriller, Mystery, Cartoons, Comedy, Drama, Foreign/Independent, Sci-Fi, Musical

Food: American, Barbecue, Chinese/Dim Sum, Deli, French, German, Greek, Indian, Italiano, Japanese/Sushi, Mediterranean, Mexican, Seafood, Soul Food, Southwestern, Thai, Vegetarian/Organic, Vegan (You get the idea hehe)
The six things I could never do without
Laughter
Friends
Art
Music
My insanity
Nature
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Wouldn't YOU like to know... ;p
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing at home checking emails. I know, I live a very exciting life!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I believe that cowbell is an actual prescription for fevers...
And... I always reserve the right to own a rubber duckie at any point in time.
You should message me if
You're interested in answering this question:

Waffles or Pancakes?

It's an innocent enough question... Perverts! ;p

Also, I'm not interested in casual hookups.
Just because I message you or respond doesn't necessarily mean I want to "jump your bones".
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