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My self-summary
First, I will let two good female friends describe my personality:

1. "You are warm, compassionate, interesting, honest and funny. You are a people-person and it shows in how much you enjoy sharing stories and good times."

2. "First impression when I met you: 'Wow, he is such a kind, gentle soul.' You're so nice and caring, genuinely so. No fake smiles or asking, "How are you?" and only expecting a patent answer of, "I'm fine and you?" I like that realness you got goin' on."

I hope that I am a man of deep thought, compassion and humor. I'm friendly and I think I can be funny. I like to engage my friends and people in dialogue and learn what is important to them, that is a good time for me. I care deeply about people and especially about my friends. I like to tell stories of the ridiculous things that I have experienced or have simply happened to me.

I am tall, with a shaved head and a goatee. I have a big frame and I have a few extra pounds that I have been working off steadily. I like hiking, swimming, archery and warm sunshine. I love mountains, the woods and the sea.

I am the lead singer of a Baltimore based Industrial Metal/Hard Rock band.

I am very geeky. I love Mythology of many kinds, music of many types, singing, writing lyrics, creating music and making/writing/running/playing tabletop RPGs. I am a big fan of Lord of the Rings/Middle Earth & things Tolkien. I love Star Wars. I love Proto-Viking/Viking history and culture.

I like helping people and trying to make the world a better place. I love science, museums, learning, teaching, seeing and performing Theatre, telling stories, learning with people, and learning about people.

I read a lot. I love good movies. I love music. I am a pretty excellent cook. I love cooking for others. I make mean chocolate chip cookies with almonds.

In college I have studied 2D art, Music Performance - Voice Performance, Theatre - Acting Performance, Literature, Mythology, History, and some Science.

I am very extroverted. I learn best and fastest through interaction with people and discussion. My Myer-Briggs type fluctuates in the last 2 divisions. Mostly I am an ENTJ (The Leader), but sometimes I am ENFP (Initiator of Change/Perceptor of Possibilities).

I am strongly opinionated but I can admit when I am wrong. I believe that there is nothing bad about being wrong sometimes, as we are all human. I believe that growing as a human being means learning about yourself, learning about others and making changes in one's self when you find that you need to grow/change to accept a new idea or new data and evolve further. A human being needs humility and the ability to look at one's own foibles in the eye and face dealing with them. Growth is rarely easy.

I think that I have a strong and bright personality. I can be very excited about learning and on subjects near to my heart and when interacting with good people.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm lead singer of a Industrial Hard Rock/Metal band based out of Baltimore. We create and perform our our original music. I write lyrics and help compose music and perform in a theatrical manner. I am also a story-teller and an actor.

I work in the IT field as my day job. I help people all day and I like helping people. I am proud of the quality that I put into my work. I believe that putting excellent quality in what one does is important.
I’m really good at
I am really good at singing, acting, telling stories, creating/writing/running/playing table-top RPGs. I'm good at making people laugh. I'm good at making friends. I am good at helping people with some IT needs. I am good at teaching certain things.

I am good at helping people.

I am good at archery.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am told that I have a very friendly personality with a good smile. I am tall and broad with a shaved head. I am genuine and sincere with people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Lord of the Rings, The Hobbit, The Silmarillion, many Mythology books from all over the world (with a focus on Greek, Norse, Celtic, and Finnish), History books, Historical Fiction, The Dresden Files, Starship Troopers, Shadowrun novels, Timeline & Eaters of the Dead by Michael Crichton, The Da Vinci Code, H.P. Lovecraft, The Pillars of the Earth & The Eye of the Needle by Ken Follet, The Amber Chronicles by Roger Zelazny, Dune.

Lost, Battlestar Galactica (both versions), Law and Order & L&O Criminal Intent, CSI, Supernatural, Venture Brothers, From the Earth to the Moon, Band of Brothers, Farscape.

Limitless, Star Wars 4-6, The Princess Bride, Legend, Labyrinth, Lord of the Rings Trilogy (with some reservations), Brotherhood of the Wolf, Iron Man, Thor, Captain America, 300, Vanilla Sky, Raiders of the Lost Ark, Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade, Star Trek 1/2/3/4/6, The Fountain, The Mission, Excalibur, most Disney films, The Black Hole, The Da Vinci Code, Apollo 13, The Right Stuff, Terminator 1/2/3/4, The Book of Eli, The Forbidden Kingdom, and many, many more.

Video games:
Star Craft, War Craft II, Knights of the Old Republic, The Dig, Skyrim, Uncharted, Lord of the Rings MMO, Star Trek MMO

I like almost all Genres. I listen to a very wide variety, but I am critical. I don’t listen to music that is not well crafted. I like: Jethro Tull, Loreena McKennit, Sting, The Police, Metallica, NIN, ilyAIMY, The Mission UK, The Sisters of Mercy, Faith No More, Rammstein, Pearl Jam, Soundgarden, Rob Zombie, Rob Davis, Rage Against the Machine, Dave Matthews, Anuna, Deanta, Silly Wizard, Makem & Clancy, Dead Can Dance, Crystal Method, Daft Punk, De Bussey, Beethoven, Tchaikovsky, Mozart, and many, many more.
The six things I could never do without
1. Friendship
2. Sunshine
3. Music
4. Nature
5. Warm weather
6. Books on Middle Earth Literature, Mythology, History, Sci Fi
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Mythology from all cultures, Middle Earth, how to make the world a better place, fairness in the world, how to be a real hero/a peaceful warrior.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either band practice, being social with friends, playing games with friends, having sushi with friends, watching movies with friends.

In the summer, I will go walk outside alone or with friends.

Every once in a while I like a quiet, thoughtful Friday evening to decompress.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am human. I have many foibles. There are parts of me that I am not proud of and that need work. I can be very opinionated and slow to change my mind about certain things. I can appear very angry about issue of social justice, the lack of fairness in the world and the suffering of others. But while my bark is loud, I don't act in anger. Actions need to be made with a calm state of mind.
You should message me if
If you are a woman that is smart, friendly, geeky and physically fit. I am looking for a woman that loves learning, Mythology, Lord of the Rings, things Tolkien, Star Wars, wide varieties of music (Loreena McKennit and good hard rock, Metal and Industrial are a plus)!

Message me if you are a woman that is proud to be a geek and unashamed to let your Geek Flag fly.