64Millville, United States
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My self-summary
A little about me...

I am ready to start a new book of life. You, too??? :-)

I want to find my one forever love to share the rest of our lives, and write that final book of life together.

I am a one man woman. I won’t date (use) a man just to have someone. I am truly searching for my one forever love.

I am grounded, emotionally secure, honest, & trustworthy, with a modicum of intelligence. I am unafraid to speak my mind in a respectful manner. You will rarely have to guess what I think & feel, as I will communicate with you. I am a glass half full type, and try to see the best in people, and look for the silver lining in situations. I am open- minded and non-judgmental. My friends seek me out for advice.

I am self-sufficient. So I don’t need to be taken care of. Although advice & assistance are always welcome. :-)

I believe in treating others as I would like to be treated. I value the six main building blocks necessary to maintain a, honesty, monogamy, integrity, respect, and communication.

I enjoy antique shops, walking on the boardwalk, museums, zoos, parks, restaurants, traveling, weekend getaways, etc. I am also open to new experiences. LOL Hey! Let’s jump in the car and go explore a quaint little town that we’ve never been to!!! I’m ready! Let’s go! :-)

I am full of sparkle & compassion.
I genuinely want to make the world a better place.
I love hard.
I practice kindness.
I’m not afraid of the truth.
I am loyal and adventurous,
Supportive, and surprising.
I am a woman.
I am enough.
I make mistakes, but I own them.
And learn from them.
--Unknown Author--

About the one I'm looking for...

I am in search of ONE VERY SPECIAL GENTLEMAN who will take the time to become friends first as we peel back the layers of our onions, and make our life long connection.

It is not so much the activity we are involved in, but that we are laughing and enjoying being with each other. LOL. In the end, we will remember how we felt rather than what we did. Unless we did something really wild and crazy!! Whoo Hooo LOL

I believe that the small, everyday things in life are what are most important. Things like sharing a beautiful sunset, an inside joke shared by just the two of us, catching a kiss as we walk the boardwalk, cuddling by the fire during a snow storm, cooking a meal together on the grill on the back deck.

But above all, seeing the smile and twinkle in in my partner's eyes..knowing that he is happy. And knowing that he loves me because he doesn't just tell me, but he shows me (extremely important :-)). And I reciprocate :-). Actions speak much louder than words. :-)

I would prefer a casual, laid back "first meeting" over coffee or lunch, where we can just chat, be ourselves, and get to know each other.

I would like our actual "first date" to be much more special....maybe a quiet corner table in a nice restaurant where we can pick up where we left off during our "first meeting".


No head games or players, please. Also, If you are married, or in any type of committed relationship, please pass me by and don't waste my time or yours.

I will only respond if you have a picture posted
What I’m doing with my life
I am retired and I take each day as it unfolds. There is no need to rush through life. I take the time to smell the roses, or marvel at a beautiful sunset, or enjoy a relaxing beverage on the back deck. Or just jump in the car and explore! The freedom to live life one day at a time, and truly appreciate each day is intoxicating! References to substance abuse is purely substance abuse issues here!!! LOL
I’m really good at
Being Me!!! :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know......I never asked LOL
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I mostly read the newspaper and articles online. I can listen to any kind of music except rap & heavy metal. As for food, I can find something on almost any menu. I am not particularly fond of Mexican, though. I love shellfish, prime rib or a good steak, and Italian are all good.
Six things I could never do without
My Health which is excellent
Family & Friends
Computer, Phone, & Tablet
Air, Water, & Electricity
A Clear Conscience
Inner Peace
I know....that's more than six......I couldn't choose!!! LOL
I spend a lot of time thinking about
All that I am grateful for....especially being reasonably comfortable in retirement.

I think about the chaotic state of the world today. It saddens me that children must think about the dark side of society rather than being able to just enjoy being children.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either with friends or at home
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Do you really think I would divulge such private information here on the internet for all to see??? LOL. All things are open for discussion face-to-face ;-)
You should message me if
You are not married or in any type of committed or exclusive relationship.

You don't play head games.

You live within an hour's drive of Millville, NJ.
The two of us