I'm personable, sweet, kind, loving as well as smart, assertive, discerning, and bold. I grew up with brothers so being friends with men comes very naturally to me. I'm generally pleased with my creative busy life and I have room to welcome someone new. I'm mostly looking for a lover who is another intelligent humanist. I'd love to find someone who wants to talk about sex, spirit, politics or culture, eat good food, take a road trip, and enjoy a meaningful intimate connection.
I enjoy dating because it's fun to meet new people. I like to correspond a little first, and then meet in person. I'm not here to find a new penpal. I live in Oakland and would like to date locally. I'm open to a lot of different kinds of new relationships. I've been lucky to have a good number of positive past relationships, some of which were poly and some monogamous. Mostly I'm just open to feeling that spark of true connection, and sometimes there's more than one at the same time.
you really want to meet someone awesome
you can think of something to say in response to this profile that's more than hi, or how are you?
you live in the San Francisco Bay Area and honestly want to meet someone in person
you like yourself and you're ready