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My self-summary
I'm a bisexual librarian. Also an INTJ. Being an INTJ, I know the test is not sufficiently rigorous or replicable, but I find it helpful anyway.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working only part time, but keeping up with the library literature and developing skills. I'm living with my wife and our rescued pit bull.
I’m really good at
The scholarly pursuit of weird things. Crafting. Becoming obsessed with books, tv shows, or concepts.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm tall and broad with cat eye librarian glasses and I speak my mind even when I really shouldn't. In the first ten minutes of conversation, someone is likely to comment "wow, tell us how you really feel!" And you know what? I will.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Pho is my comfort food. The Dark Tower is my favorite series hands down. The Shining, Doctor Sleep, American Gods, Ocean at the End of the Lane, for books. Xena Warrior Princess, Bones, NCIS, Lost Girl, and The Bletchley Circle are my favorite TV shows.
Six things I could never do without
My heating pad, my phone (gateway to the vast universe of knowledge), something to do with my hands, my dog, a cup of tea, a sense of humor.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Gender. Sexuality. The vastness of the universe. Paradoxes. Religion. Neuroscience. Politics. The separation of church and state.
On a typical Friday night I am
Home with my dog and my girl, a little fuzzy, watching TV, pounding a chisel or a punch into a piece of leather, embroidering something subversive on a handkerchief, making impulsive late night baking choices...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think we'd all be a lot happier if everyone knew more about S&M.
You should message me if
You're interested in talking about sexuality or religion. You like girls who think recklessly. You're ok with cis-looking genderqueers. You want to argue kindly. You are local and you want to do any of that in person. You're interested in joining a swordfighting group.
The two of us