BigTom45
72Florence, United States
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My self-summary
High Energy
At this point there are 96 disappointed women. I can't see the women who "like" me. I am not a paid member and it frustrates both of us if you just "like" me and don't send a message. Just do it. I promise not to bite (too hard).

I love getting together with people, cooking for people, and dancing. I enjoy traveling in a RV, hiking, staying in shape and reading. I eat very well and do most of my own cooking. I am a very healthy eater. I also enjoy a certain amount of “cave time”.

I dance Ballroom, CW, Latin, Tango 2-5 nights a week. If you don't know how and want to learn, contact me. I used to teach dancing. If we click I may teach you. I was also an elementary teacher and have a lot of patience.

I like independent strong women who like men and know who they are and are comfortable with that knowledge. I prefer women who are sensuous and like touching and being touched.

I am more on the liberal side of the political spectrum and get along with those to the right. I am also a recovering catholic whose belief system is more spiritual than religious. Spirituality and finding and cultivating my place in the universe are constantly on my mind.

I am considering moving from Florence to ????
What I’m doing with my life
Right now, I believe it is my privilege and obligation to enjoy my life, to explore the what and whys of my gifts and to use them for my own benefit and the benefit of everyone else. I am terribly curious and since I am retired now I can indulge that curiosity however I want. I am way over-educated anyway and enjoy finding out about many things and satisfying my curiosity. Three cheers for Google and the other search engines.

I maintain several websites with silly titles that speak to my passions and interests. I walk, hike, dance, exercise, keep up with friends and try to maintain my large lot.
I’m really good at
.... researching questions that I find interesting. I end up really discovering things that are important to me and also a lot of useless information. I am also a great cook and enjoy cooking for an intimate dinner for two or a large group of 150. I was a 4th grade teacher and am very good at teaching things, including dancing. It is the most fun you can have with your clothes on.
The first things people usually notice about me
....is my size. I am tall and lean. Most people who spend time with me usually notice my intensity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read constantly. Sometimes it is just mysteries, or biographies, sometimes it is medical or personal research. I read more than two books a week. My music tastes are varied from classical (Puccini is my favorite) to CW, classic rock, latin and easy listening jazz. I cook (and ferment) a wide variety of food. I am an inveterate carnivore trying to put more plants in my diet and less meat. I rarely see movies (but would love to with the right partner) and watch just a little TV. I do try to follow the Broncos and would follow the Rockies if I had cable.
Six things I could never do without
Friends
Cooking utensils
the internet and my computer/smartphone
wonderful places to travel to
getting to know interesting people
a sensuous woman in my life
dance places
music
books
coffee in the morning
exploring wonderful recipes and foods
cave time
Rules like this one that I can break :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to improve myself, my world and my surroundings.
On a typical Friday night I am
Dancing at one of the many venues from Pueblo to Denver.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not going there. It’s called private for a reason.
You should message me if
Something here strikes an harmonious chord. You are looking for intelligent conversation, a sensuous life partner, a partner for cooking, traveling or dancing.
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