Bigjed123
38 San Jose, United States
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My self-summary
I am a native Northern Californian, I'm a good lover, a good kisser, honest & reasonably housebroken. I am smart, both street and book and pretty well traveled (but its been a while and I am due for another big trip).
Oh ... and I like FUN.
What I’m doing with my life
Facing what is left of it it head on!
I’m really good at
Hugs.
Moving heavy things.
Tying down stuff (like to the roof of a car or onto a overloaded pickup truck... I like taking risks with it to challenge myself; its like doing puzzles...I have never lost anything).
Assembling furniture
Science: As a matter of fact-- I am a certified Master of Science.
Mono-tasking (I suck at multitasking).
Oral Sex.
The first things people usually notice about me
My wild natural beard. Most people who keep a long beard take better care of it than than they do their kids.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Reading new/ newer political/activism books. I read when I want to learn something... I don't read fiction books for entertainment I did however read a book by a comedian recently.
Movies: Been streaming free ones on my iPad and to an Apple TV when I am near one... So much better than scowering Netflix. Ask me.
Shows: (TV or Live Performance?). Peaky Blinders, Vikings, SOA, Breaking Bad, |Political:Redacted Tonight, Act Out!, The Empire Files, On Contact, other YouTube shows and news. FUCK THE MAINSTREAM NEWS.
Music: mostly stuff with a good beat...but really I enjoy everything except country (ocationally there is a country song I can tolerate).
Food: Rare steak, raw fish with soy sauce and wasabi, practically anything with cheese, well paired flavors, I like exploring foods from around the world. In a past (fatter) life I loved buffets. "Deal breaker" foods: watermelon, cucumber, I am annoyed by (I think a commonplace) excessive overpowering use of cilantro.
The six things I could never do without
The Internet (and to be honest a tablet).
Freedom
Water: plain and caffeinated
Females: for at least eye candy (including your erogenous curves/zones)
Periodic release of Dopamine, endorphins and other similar brain chemicals
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The BIG PICTURE, Justice, and how I can contribute my skills to benefit the world --for the rest of my life... and of course what attractive females (you) might look & wiggle like: NAKED
On a typical Friday night I am
Dreaming of you (well ...at least sleeping). I don't really know how to answer this question. Probably something that has a high ratio of fun to cost. Sometimes a cheap Movie, sometimes the Gym (when I had a membership... 7/16 currently looking)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am really ultimately looking to thrive in a relationship that is supportive, intimate and satisfying.

I have admitted some pretty interesting and private shit in my uninhibited answers to all these questions (But that was recently divorced me a few years ago). If there are any answers that confuse you... just ask.

To be clear: I am not looking for one night stands & I don't mind if you are attached.
You should message me if
You want.
Your interested in trying out: https://m.youtube.com/watch?feature=youtu.be&v=3C5nE4UqqLk
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