funny, sensual, and intellectual bond with someone that I actually like. But that's not so simple, perhaps, and I am so in love with that first flush of attraction.
Maybe this is what I need - www.youtube.com/watch?v=zAlS_0wNUQg
There's a pretty long profile down there (which I've been trying to trim!), but you can skip to the "message me if" bit if you wish.
I'm intelligent (though, sometimes not so smart, and always happy to have stupid conversations, as well as deep philosophical ones), well read(ish), a little obscure, creative, well travelled, curious about the world, passionate, grown-up (most of the time), and with a well developed sense of irony about how we make life a container for things.
At this point, I know enough to know that there is much that I don't know, and while certitude has its appeal, I am quite comfortable with that.
Not so good at the stages of life that other people find so easy.
Oh, and my randomness.
“If you go home with somebody, and they don't have books, don't fuck 'em!”
- John Waters
I did have a long list here, but my tastes are many and varied and I wouldn't want someone to take that list and think, so that's him then.
Love, sex, fantasies, and human relations more generally. "Sex at Dawn" is a fascinating book, so I think about our failure to fulfil our bonobo potential and the harmony that might come with it...but this should not be read as a veiled reference to polyamory. I think that humans may be either too mature or not mature or enough for that, but either way, it's not me.
I will say that while I am nominally a grown-up, and hold down a professional job, I struggle with the concept a bit. So, I prefer the less jaded, and conveyor belt minded people....while still liking some nice stuff....
I consider myself fortunate; those that have been significant in my life have been incredible, in their own individual ways. I am picky but it's not something that I can absolutely define in advance.