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My self-summary
Hey! I like writing and drawing, comic books and videogames, reading and working with computers, stuff like that. It would be fun to find people both for friends and romantic relationships. I'm pretty nice and look for the same in others.

I’m polyamorous, so I look for relationships where I can be sexual and romantic with more than one person. But, I also like the idea of having one primary relationship, where the two of us are first in each others’ hearts. The important thing is to communicate openly about these things and check in with each other about our feelings. My belief is that polyamory is hard work, but very worth it.

The other important thing to note is that I can be very sensual, even sexual, with my friends, especially female friends. When I love a friend deeply, I tend to want touch and intimacy with them even if we’re not in a romantic relationship. So, my view is that all these categories are fluid: if we meet and hit it off, we might become friends, we might become lovers, we might even become each other’s primary relationship, but I try not to let any of those categories limit what we can do together. (And, it might take us some time to figure out which category works best for us, which is fine.)

I once read a sex advice website that said something about how you should separate your personal and sexual selves, and like most advice I’ve chosen to ignore it cheerfully, ’cause it’s wrong and makes no sense.

I am artistic, introverted, and compassionate
What I’m doing with my life
I just finished my bachelor’s degree in history at the University of Oregon, but my true love has always been art, which I practice on my own. Right now I’m polishing up my portfolio and looking for work. My goal is to find work in Portland, my glorious home, and move back there. (To Lane County people: we can still have fun in the meantime, though!)
I’m really good at
Listening! I can listen really well. I’m very kind and will help you through your rough spots!

Drawing! I’m also getting better and better at digital painting!

Videogames, of course!

Writing! I love to write!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m very tall and have awesome hair. My face is kind of chunky, too. I’m proud of it. I’m _kissable._
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: I like Chumbawamba, as well as game soundtracks. It’s weird, but music isn’t much of a part of my life. My brother has some Green Day albums, though, and they are pretty cool. I also like Pink.

Movies: I like action and aventure movies, I guess, anything idealistic and sentimental (but not faux-sentimental, aaaaugh!). The best movie I can think of that describes this was Hot Fuzz. That movie was awesome.
Though it isn’t terribly idealistic, of course, I liked Minority Report a lot! And Serenity. Okay, I like science fiction, too. I also love superhero movies! X-Men 2 and Spider-Man 1 and 2 were great! Oh, and don’t forget animated movies. A Chinese Ghost Story is my favorite movie ever made. I know, it’s a cliché to have your favorite movie be something obscure and foreign, but it was a big bursting ball of wonderful magically encoded onto a DVD.

Books: I _love_ audiobooks, they are the best things on Earth. I have ADD, so listening to audiobooks while doing art or playing games (especially Sonic games!) is an amazingly excellent way for me to learn. The game distracts my conscious mind and lets the information in... it’s a phenomenal feeling, like a really amazing class where the professor is really hot and actively having sex with you. ...And you’re playing a Sonic game. NEED I SAY MORE?
I listen to a lot of stuff about history and politics, the world in general, and I’m trying to get more into fiction. Recommend stuff to me, please! The best fiction book I ever read was “Nina: Adolescence.” I could eat that book for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. I also just listened to “The Brief, Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao” and though it was way gritty and edgy for my delicate ears it was GREAT!

Food: Pasta, pasta, pasta makes the world go round! Anything Italian (especially with garlic bread!) is totally the way to my bed. Also, I like curry. Hmmm. And Gyro sandwiches, those are great! (Anything with lots of carbohydrates, I guess. HAHAHAHAA! For all I care, Atkins can die of congestive heart failure. Oh, wait—he DID!)

Videogames: I love the world of videogames! My favorite series is Sonic The Hedgehog, a franchise I love with a passion. Videogames and videogame series that have left a fond impression in my heart over the years include Puyo Puyo, Advance Wars, Crazy Taxi, and the phenomenal Jet Grind Radio. Games I’m getting into now include Ōkami, Fire Emblem: Shadow Dragon, and Disgaea DS. They’re daunting, but fun!
Six things I could never do without
Love, friendship, compassion, my tablet computer, spaghetti, and my cats. Those are the first six things I thought of.

I’m a very sensual person. If you like sensual things, like bathing, kittens, the cool breeze, warm hugs, hot cocoa, cuddling... mmm... where was I?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, the universe, and everything. If you don't spend a lot of time thinking about things, either a) you should move on or b) maybe you're my perfect match, because perhaps I think too much and am unable to get enough done. However, I am a proud introvert and a staunch defender of my kind. INTROVERT POWER!
On a typical Friday night I am
At home, reading, doing art, playing videogames... I’m not a big club person. If you want to take me to a club, that’s great, maybe we’ll have fun, but it won’t ever be a regular thing for me. I like to take things at my own pace.

On some evenings I go to Borders to read comic books and drink hot cocoa. It’s fun!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm transsexual; that is, I’m a lady who was incorrectly assigned male at birth. I still have my cock, as I kind of enjoy it, but I’ve been on hormones long enough to have a nice, growing pair of tits as well. Besides that, I’m lucky that I’ve always had a wonderfully feminine figure, the soft and skinny type to be specific, and my Norwegian heritage means I’m super built. You could totally get your hands on me!

I’m a nudist. Nudism and body freedom are really important to me; someday, I want to have a nudist family and it will be awesome. It’s something I’m really serious about, so if it scares you, you might want to move on. (I mean, I’m okay with wearing clothes—I do it all the time!—I just prefer being naked, and more in touch with myself and the world around me.)

I’m a vorarephile. Vorarephilia, or vore for short, is a fetish where you find pleasure in stories where people get eaten. Specifically, I enjoy fantasies where _I_ get eaten (om nom nom). It’s a fairly obscure fetish, and I’m proud of it, it’s one of my cute li’l quirks that make me who I am. Likewise, I don’t require my lovers to be vorarephiles (otherwise, I’d get barely any dates), but I do want to make sure you’re not repulsed by the fact that I am into vore, and I do want my lovers to be able to tease me gently about it (like, “oh, you look good enough to eat”). Be warned, though: if you’re a man, avoid vorish flirting until we’ve become emotionally close, or until after I initiate it myself. One of the quickest ways to turn me off is to tell me you’d like to eat me before I’m ready to hear stuff like that. (If you’re a woman, the rules are loosened. Use your best judgment.)

One last thing: I was really tempted to check “casual sex” in the “looking for” section; the reason I didn’t is because I don’t want to treat sex _casually_, because that sounds unhealthy. I think what might describe better what I’m looking for is “sex with friends” (as well as the significant-other kind). If we get to know each other, and we get along, who knows where it might go?
You should message me if think I’m cool and want to know more about me. I mean, I think I’m cool! share a lot of interests with me and you think we could be great friends. think I’m hot and totally want to boink me (but are _also_ interested in who I am... very important!).’re a lesbian couple looking for a girl-toy. For some reason, I’ve always wanted that.’re a lady who wants to have super female-bonding type adventures!’re a man who wants to have something new and different!’re a woman who wants something new and different! (or genderqueer! ...etc) want to do silly and sensual things like bathing together and pillow fights. Actually, that’s just for the ladies. GIRLY-BONDING!’re artistic and you want to explore the outer reaches of the universe with somebody!’re fascinated by me and want to explore me and all my depths!, like me, are an enormous fan of Sonic The Hedgehog and can name bizarre Sonic trivia with righteous passion! could just grab me, roll me up and eat me! can make up your own answer! Just let me know what it was!
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