UPDATE!: Who am I? (A little bit about me)
Who am I as a partner, lover, and friend...
Yes I'm that guy that puts away their shopping cart even in the rain. No, I can not leave extra time sitting on the Microwave without deleting it. Yes, I will ride my shopping cart back to the car...and I'll race you .. and win. I say "excuse me" when I burp ..even if I'm alone.
I'm often caught giving the coat to a freezing man then getting beat by my woman later for doing it. Openly serving & cherishing my woman will never effect my macho manhood & in my mind it only adds to me as a man. I will always hold the door…not for the “thank you’s” but because I'm a firm believer in "treat others the way I would like to be treated.." is a lifestyle and not just a cool saying. I like to cook even more than I like to eat. I believe in “Eat to live--not live to eat”.
I do not attack people personally when they disagree with me. I try to honor the Toltec teachings that remind me to “never take it personally”, especially when dealing w others. I especially don't believe in attacking or blaming others when tragedy strikes, or when tension hits; but instead I’m usually found too busy fixing it with a solution &-or making everyone feel better about themselves with jokes.
I am never too manly or too far up the career ladder to clean or do something and do it right. I enjoy serving and giving foot massages to my woman and you’ll often find me randomly finding ways to bring or inspire child-like fun & joy into your day. I often leave love notes hidden in your things to remind you you’re loved & no matter how your day is going, you always have love waiting for you with me.
I feel at home most when I’m at the beach or being creative. I love to travel & learn new cultures and new ways of looking at things. I never cheat and never will on someone--it just isn't who I am. ('ask anyone who knows me bc I don't give them any slack for doing it either' - I will leave before I will cheat. if I'm done enough to cheat then I'm done enough to leave first, for my own respect and yours...And if you do I will leave--never to return. no games and no pass go) - that just IS who I am.
I have a love for life. I like to be clean and live in a clean place. I'm not afraid to clean it all and organize it myself.
I enjoy learning and will never stop being a student in life.
Though I may not wear my heart on my sleeve, I am not harsh or cold; I do know the depths of heartache and will genuinely take action to avoid causing it to others.
I believe I have often been mistaken in my confidence and mystery for a 'Bad Boy' and though there may have been a time I fit that when younger, I really always was the good guy at heart. I believe that the main reason people are misled and attracted to “Bad Boys" is the ‘confidence of a madman’ and that is a mistake when there are so many others with the right qualities & charisma that will treat you healthy and cherish your partnership.
Dont mistake my kindness for weakness;
I dont take kindly to manipulators and people who take advantage of others.I am very passionate about life but equally even-tempered in most human interaction. I believe in true love. I believe also in self growth & inner learning...and most of all the universal laws; I believe in 'Law Of Attraction', Quantum Physics, and using 'Deliberate Attraction' methods to help attain a happy life.
I believe my Attitude is one of the most important of all my self-responsibilities & tools in life--the Attitude of Gratitude works.
I think what some may call the slight imperfections in a woman's looks are usually the sexiest in contrast. (slightly crooked smile, slight lisp, defined nose, scar, freckles, etc...the things that make her unique.) I'm attracted to a kind heart & integrity most of all.
Though I may feel some attraction or connection to-for hurt or unhappy people who see life half empty, I do owe it to myself to keep the opposite around me and especially the people closest...I have a tendency to do for others at my own expense and therefore I've learned the hard way I owe it to myself to be with someone with a good heart and good head on their shoulders, and someone who genuinely wants to be happy and willing to do what it takes to make a good life.
I sometimes would rather cook brownies with my lover at home, than go out and ‘party’ with friends. I do like to go to & host social gatherings; grill outs at our home, game nights, movie at the pool, cheese racing, etc...but as 'partying' goes I’ve been there & done that, so usually find it boring at the least. But fun is everywhere if you look…And I have a gift for finding it.
I will always enjoy making art. I can’t look at anything and not see art within it.
Wow, it is harder for me to talk about myself than I expected.
If you want to know more.. I've branded myself online as "BlotterMonkey" and not hard to find.
I have a unique chance to create my life the correct way this time.. A second chance you might say. After losing nearly everything and after the accident, being told I’d never walk again, without help at best, only to never give up & not take “no” as an answer and now I’m completely healthy and not only walking again, but RUNNING in life!
This time I wont get distracted by the things that don’t matter or waste time with little things, and have more time for people, but not waste it on those who aren’t serious about a happy healthy life..
I hope to return and post more about me soon...
I'm an Information Architect by title but I'm really an Information Artist in action...
- http://www.behance.net/blottermonkey - Graphic Artist Portfolio
And I'm not to shabby at web-coding & CMS either, ..as you can tell by my links on here ツ
I also LOVE humor.. I am into Anything that makes me laugh and love to go out to Comedy Clubs and even make my own comedy.
- To Visit the "Best-of"of my SitDown-Comedy:
Novels: The Demon Accords by John Conroe, The Strain Trilogy (3 books) by Del Toro, Guillermo, Chuck Hogan, Nightlord Series by Garon Whited, The Deathless Series by Chris Fox
And a WHOLE lot of Tech Books: right now I'm neck deep in Murach's 'HTML5 & CSS3', the personal MBA,
..I read leading tech books like normal folks read novels I suppose. My thirst for knowledge is never ending and I'm sure it can get annoying to some. I'm always taking extra college, tech, Tut+ & Linda.com courses...
I really enjoy learning new tools for life, productivity, & art. But I'm to the point in my life that I'm trying to grow inner/spiritual wisdom to balance my intelligence into a life worth sharing.
Movie: Princess Bride, Dune, Any scifi/horror Zombie movies...
TV: Family Guy, Dexter, American Horror Story, Futurama, Adventure Time, Rick and Morty, SpongeBob, Netflix originals, The Walking Dead, ...
I will go without TV for months then binge watch my fav TV collections one weekend.
Music: Anything but country...
I tend to like: Red Hot Chili Peppers, Doors, VAST, Stateless, Beats Antique, Thom Yorke, Primus, Tool, and too much to list. I like just about anything but crap. Depends on mood. Not really into country or rap, unless is funny.
I strongly believe that Rap & Country are only here to make fun of & have fun with..
1. My Son
2. My Laptop
3. Diet Coke
6. A place to express my creativity with art & design or comedy.
- http://bit.ly/All-About-Me - All About me/My Story
- http://www.behance.net/blottermonkey - Graphic Artist Portfolio
- http://en.gravatar.com/blottermonkey - Online Presence List
- http://www.facebook.com/AlmostHumor -My blogs Fb pg ‘AlmostHumor’
- http://favstar.fm/users/BlotterMonkey -Best of’ my ‘Sit-Down-Comedy’
- https://plus.google.com/+RobertWilkinsonBlotterMonkey -G+ Plus Profile
- http://twitter.com/BlotterMonkey -Twitter
- http://almosthumor.wordpress.com - Almost Humor
or I'm curled up alone with a good movie or book...
or curled up with my computer working on another project... mostly working on art.
I must admit I'm a 'serial monogamist' as they might say.
I have been spending time getting to know me, And not really dating, mostly just relearning who I am & becoming a better ME.
So my patterns aren't set like most ppl, I'm always looking for new adventures and new ways to have fun. I'm open to new things & have enjoyed life alot already by traveling the world and doing many strange adventures, I'm excited to get back to sharing adventures and enjoying life with someone again...
Remember: People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within..
Need tips on Art & Design or Technology
Want to get to know me better
Want to meet me.
Travel or work too much anymore like me & want a partner in crime when going out.