32Boynton Beach, United States
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My self-summary
My name is Tom, I am originally from Chicago. I am a third culture kid, having grown up in countries outside of my own such as Malaysia, Jakarta, Switzerland, and Kuwait.

I moved to the states when I was 18 and got my bachelors in philosophy with a minor in ethnic studies from the University of San Diego. I also have a masters in Eastern Classics from St. John's College in Santa Fe, New Mexico.

I have done two years of AmeriCorps, one in Chicago and one in West Palm Beach where I worked as GED tutor and a computer literacy assistant.

I enjoy walks on the beach, running, golfing, reading, meditating, watching movies, trying out new restaurants, going clubbing, and finding time to relax.
What I’m doing with my life
Working as a job coach at a local non-profit that provides homeless resources including housing and job training services to men, women, and children in Palm Beach County.
I’m really good at
listening to people, juggling, massages, dancing, sports, meditating, and being responsible
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Ishmael, My Ishmael, The Holy, Invisible Man, Peace is Every Step, Scar Tissue, The Master, Siddhartha, Narcissus and Goldmund, Never Let Me go, The Power of Now, A New Earth, My Left Foot, Beyond Civilization, Dracula, Think on These Things

Movies: Midnight Cowboy, Dumb and Dumber, The Motorcycle Diaries, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Eyes Wide Shut, The Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Forrest Gump, Pulp Fiction, The Shawshank Redemption, Fight Club, The Fly, Prometheus, Waking Life, Rocky, Love Liza, Chasing Amy, Match Point, Kramer vs. Kramer, Rain Man, Braveheart, Scent of a Woman,

Shows: South Park, Seinfeld, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Beavis and Butt-Head, Eastbound and Down, Boardwalk Empire, Lost, Family Guy, Louie, Doug, Ren and Stimpy

Music: Die Antwoord, Seal, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Movie Soundtracks, Kings of Convenience, The Doors, A Perfect Circle, Pearl Jam, Stone Temple Pilots, Soundgarden, Nirvana, Joy Division, Tenacious D, Haddaway, Michael Jackson, The Cure, Rage Against The Machine, Bob Marley, Foo Fighters, Tracy Chapman, Thievery Corporation, The Dresden Dolls, Sleater-Kinney, Tool, Reflekt, Ray Charles, Jim O'Rourke, Goldfrapp

Food: Indian, Chinese, Japanese, Thai, Syrian, Lebanese, Greek, Mexican, French, Italian
Six things I could never do without
-Time off
-Great conversation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Family and friends, diet and exercise, peace and love, meditation, sports, movies, psychology, philosophy, travel, romantic love, instinctive connections, gender roles, identity, art, excelling at something, being creative, being the best version of myself
On a typical Friday night I am
eating sushi and going to a club or staying at home and watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes I try too hard to make things work instead of accepting things as they are
You should message me if
You want to meet a nice and thoughtful guy who likes to have fun
The two of us