32Norfolk, United States
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My self-summary
I truly do enjoy my life and have learned to appreciate the wealth of all its seasons. At this point I am looking for a like minded individual to share it with. My life is one of great artistic expression, I am a Freestyler, don't know what that is? Ask me about it sometime. I dance socially and also compete. I love Blues dancing and Lindy Hop! This allows for me to travel to different cities and have amazing experiences. You don’t have to know how to dance, but you do have to be ok with me dancing. It is a big part of my life, and will do it until I can no longer move. It’s my passion, alongside with helping people. I work with an organization that helps people to put their lives back together. I am also passionate about seeing people succeed. I dabble in Djing and production for fun. I also teach dance in my spare time. I am VERY open-minded and empathetic. I also enjoy doing yoga and various other exercises. I would like to meet someone who is actively living life and not just existing. Message me if that is you.
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently studying for the GRE. I am looking in to programs that offer a dual masters with (Counseling/ Social work) and Divinity. I also spend a good amount of time either working out, or training in various styles. I dance for fun and do competitions.
I’m really good at
I am:
A great listener
Slow to anger
Cool in very stressful situations
Able to admit when I am wrong
Blues Dancing, Lindy hop, and Hip Hop dance styles
Helping people put their lives back together
Validating other peoples feelings
Maintaining healthy boundaries
Communicating effectively
Handling my emotions
The first things people usually notice about me
The fact that I am very whitty, and my fly haircut.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite Book: Forever by Pete Hamill

Wisdom of Insecurity by Alan Watts
The Art of Living by Epictetus/Lidell
The Art of War by Sun Tzu
The Art of Loving by Erich Fromm
Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
The Shadow of the Wind by Carlos Ruiz Zafon
The Wheel of Life by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz
Blindness by Jose Sarmago
The North River by Pete Hamill

Here are some of my favorites movies:
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
The Brothers Bloom
The Door in The Floor
Dream Land

Anything by Alan Watts
Utah Phillips
Ted Talks

Things of interest:
Digital DJing
Going to concerts/local shows

Battlestar Galactica, Portlandia, The Walking Dead, Supernatural, Doctor Who, Dollhouse, Firefly

I really like a lot of underground artists. I am also learning how to produce my own music. That will be a long but interesting road to travel.
Here are some the artists that I am into right now:
Andreya Triana
Ani Difranco
The Cinematic Orchestra
Portis Head
Alice Russell
Aimee Mann
Massive Attack
Gang Starr
Peter Vronsky
Common Market
Electric Wire Hustle
The Duhks
Future of Forestry
Hope Sandoval and The Warm Inventions
The Lost and Found
Jamie Lidell
Musiq Soul Child
Sarah McLachlan
Washed Out
Gold Panda
Glass Animals
Beats Antique
Six things I could never do without
My faith
Blues Dancing
Healthy friendships
Good pair of boots
The desire to travel
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I am attached to this world, and the positive things that I can create in it. I like to read about space, science, different religons, psychology , and philosophy. As stated, so far, Alan Watts is my favorite.
On a typical Friday night I am
I am either working, practiicing either djing or dancing, or spending time with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I am a WWII nerd. Particularly on the Invasion of Normandy.
Reading in the stillness of morning light from my bed
Sunglasses make me a bit tired... Psychology!
You should message me if
You are:
Open minded
Give great hugs
Are funny
Don't take yourself too seriously
Enjoys being outdoors
Loves to dance (even if you can't )
Want to have meaningful stimulating conversations about life
Are a deep thinker
Has a desire to keep learning
An avid reader

Here is something that could possibly get the ball rolling. Try you best to answer this:

Are cows, who are in a field, with other cows, who are eating grass, drinking water, in the sunshine... are they happy?

I would love to hear your response.
The two of us