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My self-summary
I'm a good dude...a guys guy...a girl's guy (not as strong as "ladies man" ;) I work in finance and I'm the lead singer of a pop rock band. Between those two things and getting to the gym on a regular basis, that keeps me pretty busy!
I'm at that perfect age or point in my life where I'm actually pretty content and just looking to have fun and let what happens happen on the relationship end of things. Dont get me wrong, I'm definitely looking for "the one" right girl to settle down and live happily ever after with, ha ha... but I've learned that that can only happen when you dont force things. I do know what I want though.
My mom and sister (and probably ex girlfriends, though ask at your own risk, lol) would probably tell you that I'm definitely a romantic. I'm a fun-loving, easy-going, funny (to those that have a good sense of humor;), outgoing, caring, interesting, intelligent, all around (I think) fairly unique guy. Oh and did I mention happy? I'm a happy person with an optimistic view on life...pessimists need not apply ;)
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working hard at building my business as well as developing my passionate music hobby. I'm also trying to get the most out of my daily life by experiencing new things when possible and being active in as many ways as possible. Like most other New Yorkers, I wouldn't mind making it big...but my true pursuit is happiness and a healthy, balanced, and fulfilling life. Be warned, I do have big dreams though! haha.
I’m really good at
Well I'm NOT really good at writing profiles for things like this, lol...but I am good at a few things. I am actually a really good listener. I'm really good at solving problems as well...whether they be tangible or intangible, between people, or in a physical business or real world sense. I'm also a decent singer ;)
Our latest song that I wrote:
Original song performance:
Sample from another project, my acoustic Duo:
The first things people usually notice about me
Physically, probably that I take good care of myself and that I present myself well...
Non-physically...that there are many sides to me...that are pretty disparate...I'm a bit of a jack of all trades...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books: Anything that teaches me something useful that I can use in my life
Movies: I love comedies (even the stupid ones), super hero movies (come on, these days they are making them pretty well you have to admit!), also movies with twists and some of the cult classics. I even enjoy a good rom-com now and then...
Food: Apple Pie, Lasagna, M&M Cookies (all that good stuff that I rarely let myself eat, haha)... I also enjoy sushi and I can cook some pretty delicious healthy wouldn't even know they are healthy ;)

Woah....almost forgot the most important one! Music!...So honestly I appreciate all music, and depending on the day or my mood, I can enjoy anything from country to electronic to hip hop, pop rock or even name it! Can you tell I like music? Haha.
Six things I could never do without
My family
My guitar
A good pair of running shoes
I'd have a tough time without my morning starbucks and kashi cereal with fruit in it, ha ha.
And honestly, I'm gonna get real for a second and say money, ...there are a lot of things I want to do in this life, and a good portion of them cost some dinero!
And lastly...the BEACH...I love the beach....LOVE...being out on a surf board at sunset is the most amazing "zen" type experience I know. So why do I live in NYC and not Cali?...I wonder the same thing...I do love New York, but someday I want to live on the beach again...but I always want to be close to a big city.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to grow my business. How to develop my music. How the important people in my life are doing and how I can help them (sounds like some cheesy dating site bs, but it's actually true)
On a typical Friday night I am
Singing lead and playing guitar at a gig with my original pop rock band Blue Sour (now the username makes sense huh? had to read a bit to get there.).
Or if I don't have a gig, I'm usually out with friends. I must admit, after a long work week, I am usually pretty tired on I don't mind low key nights occasionally too!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a good the past girls have found that out and then they decided never to cook thats private now, ha ha... Or was until I wrote this... ahh damn.... ha ha
You should message me if
You like what you hear about me, you are fun, outgoing, active (you don't have to be a super athlete, but I'm an active guy, I need someone who can keep up with me) and you have at least have a little bit of self confidence ;)
Honestly, I've met a lot of very nice, very attractive girls through this site (with a few exceptions). Unfortunately for me, "nice" and "attractive" isn't quite enough...don't get me wrong, nice and attractive are definitely important, but alone they tend to be pretty boring. I'm looking for someone with some "spunk". Someone who I can actually carry on good, naturally flowing conversations with. It shouldn't be hard, it should be fun! It's ok to be shy at first, but there's got to be a little bit of personality hidden in there somewhere. Witty banter and flirting are totally under-rated in my book... it's not easy to find people you have that type of connection/chemistry with... but when you's the most fun type of relationship, and in my mind, the type that has the best chance of lasting ;)
The two of us