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My self-summary
Coffee addict. Wiseass. Bookworm. Cat owner. Introvert.

Hard to get to know because I make an effort to stay closed off and withdrawn with most people and I'm fucking atrocious at meeting new people.

Tend not to renew leases and keep finding excuses to move. I spent a year in North Dakota that I don't regret but absolutely refuse to repeat. Very much enjoy a job that lets me change my scenery regularly.
What I’m doing with my life
Improving myself. I've gotten a gym membership and am pushing myself to go regularly. Trying to cut out sugary drinks, cut back on alcohol. Haven't done much else with my diet, but that's next on the to-do list.

Work keeps me busy and I'm trying to work on my own discipline [something that never really came naturally to me] in my spare time.
I’m really good at
I can be disgustingly persuasive when I want to be.

I enjoy writing.

The absolute best part of any job that I've ever had has always been the moments where my boss goes "Ok here's the problem. This is what I need. Make it happen." Problem solving. Exercising my creativity and resourcefulness. I love it.

And I give REALLY good massages. Seriously.
The first things people usually notice about me
"So...did the barber just forget to finish your haircut orrr...?"
"You should've asked for a refund on that haircut."

Or the always classy "Your hair is stupid."

Whatever. I like it, I'm not changing it until I want to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The right music can make my whole body ache with the simple joy of it. Concerts and music festivals are absolutely amazing. There's nothing quite like the raw energy of thousands of peoples' hearts beating to the same rhythm, their feet pounding the ground with the music as you watch every one of them start jumping to the beat. The first time I went to a music festival I think is also the first time I really understood why people get so into religion.

Music - almost anything. I'll get on a kick of one song or genre and listen to it nonstop for a week. Then I'll find something new. But easily my two favorites are Shinedown and Rise Against. But I'll swap from top 40 pop to country to coffeehouse acoustic stuff and everything in between and back at the drop of a hat.

I like to read when I have a book to read. I have a seriously obsessive personality, so when I find a book or TV show I like I'll dive into it and burn through it in a few hours or days.
Six things I could never do without
Internet access, coffee and a working car. That's honestly about it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sex and how it influences decisions and motivations and people.
Why society is so hung up on sexual monogamy.
My own motivations.
The distribution of power in relationships.
Why I'm so, so bad at things like small talk, making friends, and generally 'being in public.'
How much I want to cover myself in tattoos as soon as I decide what to actually get.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've had Taylor Swift's 'Blank Space' on repeat for like two days and I refuse to apologize for it.
You should message me if
I'm not interested in hate, intolerance, or willful ignorance. Homophobia, racism and claims that evolution shouldn't be taught in schools are all major dealbreakers.

Intelligence, rationality and independence, on the other hand, are all things I find incredibly attractive. I'm looking for a woman capable of thinking and functioning for herself, not a 'better half.'
The two of us