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My self-summary
Hey there. I'm the guy that your mom wants you to take home! I'm am an honest, stand-up guy, with a sense of humor who treats women with dignity and respect. I have plenty of old fashioned gentlemanly qualities, but I respect the needs and desires of the modern woman.
What I’m doing with my life
Pursuing my passions and taking steps to improve professionally while also spending time helping people when I can. I am very ambitious and am taking steps in preparing for my next in life, which will include improving my professional standing. I am currently working two jobs; one as a inventory specialist at a shoe company and the other as a doorman at a sportsbar. :)

Between going down the road toward a better job and an improved life overall. I am presently working two jobs and volunteering for different organizations and causes, all of which keeps me fairly busy. But that doesn't mean I don't have enough time to have some fun with my friends and family, and quite simply enjoying life!

I'm also a die hard Boston Sports fan. If you are related to Bobby Valentine, you need not message me!
I’m really good at
Thumb wrestling. Lifetime record of 341-0.

I'm also a good listener and communicator.

I'm a horrible dancer, but that is what makes me a great dancer!

I love cooking for others and I also enjoy cooking with others. But I'm warning you now- I don't give my homemade Chilli recipe to just anyone.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile-people tell me it lights up the room. I have an infectious laugh and positive approach to life.

Also, I believe I look much more handsome in person than I do in photographs. (I do not photograph well.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The 16th Round, The BFG, The House With the Clock in It's Walls

Movies: The Hurricane, Remember the Titans, Keeping the Faith... I could go on and on- love movies!

Music: "It's a small world after all" is on constant repeat on my ipod- straight gangsta.

Food: You name it, I eat it.
Six things I could never do without
1. Family
2. Laughter
3. Friendship
4. Love
5. Message me to find out #5 :)
6. My alarm clock
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why women are so scared of what they do not know and seemingly would rather run away than experience and find out.

Why people are seemingly so scared of hearing and being honest . . . concepts portrayed perfectly in X-men the Last Stand . . .

Is there a woman out there who is serious about wanting a serious relationship with a Divergent or a serious relationship at all?

I often wonder why a woman says she finds a man she is excited about and wants to date an yet is still online looking. . . that seems counterintuitive to me and does not make much sense.

I wonder why is a first question of Who are you? is not asked and investigated more in the early stages of dating. . . Is not the point of dating to get to know better the person you are on a date with?
On a typical Friday night I am
Out having fun with friends. I am very social and enjoy going out to eat or to a local bar in Cambridge and meeting new people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love walking into a room where I know nobody, and walking out knowing everybody.

I have a very mild case of CP. Friends tell me I am just like anyone else in life. Everyone has something; mild CP is both my social curse and a life blessing. . .

A couple of facts about CP:

1. There is almost no chance of it being passed onto the next generation.

2. I buck the "norm" when it comes to a lot of ways in which the Internet describes people with CP as being. For example, I am very social and outgoing. A key thing to remember when getting to know me and how CP affects me in life is that I know how CP affects me and I also know that there is a ton of information out there on the subject that does not apply to me. If you want to find out the affect of how CP affects my life all you have to do is ask me; please do not assume that if the Internet says it, it must also apply to me. That is about the worst thing you can do if you want to get to know me better! :)

3. I do not drive. That said I do travel when I have time and opportunity; I just travel via public transit; wether that be bus or public transit system. Many people in the Boston area use public transit regularly. That said, if driving is a deal breaker for you, then so be it. You will be =missing out on a really good man. :)
You should message me if
You eventually want a real relationship with a man who will treat you very well. You genuinely want to settle down and get married.

You are a woman of strong character and you back up your words with actions.

You live and date with integrity. Similarly, you also present yourself in dating as you really are in life, the authentic you, and want to really and truly get to know a man and purse a real connection. You are comfortable in your own skin and do not necessitate material things to be truly happy in your life. You are driven/ambitious both in your professional and/or personal life.

You are open-minded to the fact that connections do not necessary happen instantaneously and sometimes take multiple dates to develop and you are willing to take the time to see the potential of a possible connection.

You communicate well in dating and not simply in texting. You believe that a true spark is found in person and not behind a computer or phone.

You have a good sense of humor and at least have a tolerance for sports. You having a real interest in sports team, whether in Boston or elsewhere is a bonus!

You actually want to meet and see where it leads.
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