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My self-summary
Hey there. I'm the guy that your mom wants you to take home! I'm am an honest, stand-up guy, with a sense of humor who treats women with dignity and respect. I have plenty of old fashioned gentlemanly qualities, but I respect the needs and desires of the modern woman.
What I’m doing with my life
Pursuing my passions and taking steps to improve professionally while also spending time helping people when I can. I am very ambitious and am taking steps in preparing for my next in life, which will include improving my professional standing. I am currently working two jobs; one as a inventory specialist at a shoe company and the other as a doorman at a sportsbar. :)

Between going down the road toward a better job and an improved life overall. I am presently working two jobs and volunteering for different organizations and causes, all of which keeps me fairly busy. But that doesn't mean I don't have enough time to have some fun with my friends and family, and quite simply enjoying life!

I'm also a die hard Boston Sports fan. If you are related to Bobby Valentine, you need not message me!
I’m really good at
Thumb wrestling. Lifetime record of 341-0.

I'm also a good listener and communicator.

I'm a horrible dancer, but that is what makes me a great dancer!

I love cooking for others and I also enjoy cooking with others. But I'm warning you now- I don't give my homemade Chilli recipe to just anyone.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile-people tell me it lights up the room. I have an infectious laugh and positive approach to life.

Also, I believe I look much more handsome in person than I do in photographs. (I do not photograph well.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The 16th Round, The BFG, The House With the Clock in It's Walls

Movies: The Hurricane, Remember the Titans, Keeping the Faith... I could go on and on- love movies!

Music: "It's a small world after all" is on constant repeat on my ipod- straight gangsta.

Food: You name it, I eat it.
The six things I could never do without
1. Family
2. Laughter
3. Friendship
4. Love
5. Message me to find out #5 :)
6. My alarm clock
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why women are so scared of what they do not know and seemingly would rather run away than experience and find out.

Why people are seemingly so scared of hearing and being honest . . . concepts portrayed perfectly in X-men the Last Stand . . .

Is there a woman out there who is serious about wanting a serious relationship with a Divergent?

I often wonder why a woman says she finds a man she is excited about and wants to date an yet is still online looking. . . that seems counterintuitive too me and does not make much sense.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out having fun with friends. I am very social and enjoy going out to eat or to a local bar in Cambridge and meeting new people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love walking into a room where I know nobody, and walking out knowing everybody.

I have a very mild case of CP. Friends tell me I am just like anyone else in life. Everyone has something; mild CP is both my social curse and a life blessing. . .

A couple of facts about CP:

1. There is almost no chance of it being passed onto the next generation.

2. I buck the "norm" when it comes to a lot of ways in which the Internet describes people with CP as being. For example, I am very social and outgoing. A key thing to remember when getting to know me and how CP affects me in life is that I know how CP affects me and I also know that there is a ton of information out there on the subject that does not apply to me. If you want to find out the affect of how CP affects my life all you have to do is ask me; please do not assume that if the Internet says it, it must also apply to me. That is about the worst thing you can do if you want to get to know me better! :)

3. I do not drive. That said I do travel when I have time and opportunity; I just travel via public transit; wether that be bus or public transit system. Many people in the Boston area use public transit regularly. That said, if driving is a deal breaker for you, then so be it. You will be =missing out on a really good man. :)
You should message me if
You eventually want a real relationship in which a man will treat you well. I appreciate straightforwardness, honesty, and understanding. Please be a woman whose actions mirror her words. I find women of strong character and women who are bonafide in who they are are and how they present themselves to me to be very attractive :) I seek to get to know and accept you for who you are, "bumps and bruises" included; I do not think that it is too much to ask for the same in return.

You live and date with integrity. You are actually interested in and ready for finding a real and serious relationship leading to real commitment and building of a family and are not simply dating around. I do realize that going from dating to a relationship does take time and I am willing to take things slowly. Also key in this is a bonafide presentation of who you are, especially in person, and that you present real interest on a date and not use "pet" lines, like "You have very beautiful eyes."

You strive only to be the best version of yourself everyday.

You communicate well in dating and not simply in texting. You believe that a true spark is found in person and not behind a computer or phone.

Also, If you appreciate sarcasm and wit and enjoy sports in some aspect. I would love the chance to get to know you better, and if you are up for it, grabbing a drink or a bite to eat.