Between going down the road toward a better job and an improved life overall. I am presently working two jobs and volunteering for different organizations and causes, all of which keeps me fairly busy. But that doesn't mean I don't have enough time to have some fun with my friends and family, and quite simply enjoying life!
I'm also a die hard Boston Sports fan. If you are related to Bobby Valentine, you need not message me!
I'm also a good listener and communicator.
I'm a horrible dancer, but that is what makes me a great dancer!
I love cooking for others and I also enjoy cooking with others. But I'm warning you now- I don't give my homemade Chilli recipe to just anyone.
Also, I believe I look much more handsome in person than I do in photographs. (I do not photograph well.)
Movies: The Hurricane, Remember the Titans, Keeping the Faith... I could go on and on- love movies!
Music: "It's a small world after all" is on constant repeat on my ipod- straight gangsta.
Food: You name it, I eat it.
5. Message me to find out #5 :)
6. My alarm clock
Why people are seemingly so scared of hearing and being honest . . . concepts portrayed perfectly in X-men the Last Stand . . .
Is there a woman out there who is serious about wanting a serious relationship with a Divergent?
I often wonder why a woman says she finds a man she is excited about and wants to date an yet is still online looking. . . that seems counterintuitive too me and does not make much sense.
I have a very mild case of CP. Friends tell me I am just like anyone else in life. Everyone has something; mild CP is both my social curse and a life blessing. . .
A couple of facts about CP:
1. There is almost no chance of it being passed onto the next generation.
2. I buck the "norm" when it comes to a lot of ways in which the Internet describes people with CP as being. For example, I am very social and outgoing. A key thing to remember when getting to know me and how CP affects me in life is that I know how CP affects me and I also know that there is a ton of information out there on the subject that does not apply to me. If you want to find out the affect of how CP affects my life all you have to do is ask me; please do not assume that if the Internet says it, it must also apply to me. That is about the worst thing you can do if you want to get to know me better! :)
3. I do not drive. That said I do travel when I have time and opportunity; I just travel via public transit; wether that be bus or public transit system. Many people in the Boston area use public transit regularly. That said, if driving is a deal breaker for you, then so be it. You will be =missing out on a really good man. :)
You live and date with integrity. You are actually interested in and ready for finding a real and serious relationship leading to real commitment and building of a family and are not simply dating around. I do realize that going from dating to a relationship does take time and I am willing to take things slowly. Also key in this is a bonafide presentation of who you are, especially in person, and that you present real interest on a date and not use "pet" lines, like "You have very beautiful eyes." You would rather be yourself and want to find a man who will accept and want ultimately to love you for all of who you are and provided that you are willing to do the same with him. You communicate well in dating and not simply in texting. You believe that a true spark is found in person and not behind a computer or phone.
Also, If you appreciate sarcasm and wit and enjoy sports in some aspect. I would love the chance to get to know you better, and if you are up for it, grabbing a drink or a bite to eat.
Lastly, there seems to be a "trend" (so to speak) of people, both men and women, not wanting or being scared of commitment and a real relationship. I am waiting for a woman to prove this trend wrong. . .