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My self-summary
I'm impossible to pigeonhole, I'm a sports fan who loves art, literature, going to museums, history, reading both classics as well as campy pulp novels.

ENFP if you're into the Meyer Briggs thing.

If religion is a focus of your life or you're a Trump supporter i"m not the droid you're looking for.

"Awww...yeah...yeah...yeah..... why don't you pump up that def jam right about now?"
What I’m doing with my life
Working, writing my detective novel- i'm 13 chapters in with another 3 to go.

23 year radio veteran not currently in the business and refocusing my creativity in other areas such as the aforementioned detective novel.

Thrifting on a regular basis and hitting up auction sites for inventory to sell in my Etsy store where I mainly sell vintage toys & action figures.
I’m really good at
Trivia - sports, pop culture,history, TV & movies, I'm THE ringer you want on your team.
I'm a heck of a home chef and love being in the kitchen.
I'm the KING of parallel parking, there's no spot I can't get a car into!
I tell great stories - i'm big on details and love to paint a picture for whoever I am sharing the story with.
Remember this scene from: "Reservoir Dogs"?

"It's the details that sell the story!" and I firmly believe in that!

I'm a great listener and forever ready to be an ear to a friend.
Always know the name of the movie or tv show that "had that guy or girl who was in that thing".
give great hugs, and can pack a box for shipping or moving like a pro!
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes- they are VERY blue, big smile or tattoos, as well as my big voice and laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'll keep this list as brief as I can, movies:
Summer School
LA Confidential
The Warriors
Real Genius

Ok, now some authors and books:
Oscar Wilde
Kevin Canty
Judy Blume: "Tales of a fourth grade nothing" & :"Superfudge" are my favorites
Paul Zindel - my inspiration for my YA writing, I could read his books all day!
Mary Shelley - writing the masterpiece she did in: "Frankenstein" as well as her long catalogue of short stories and other novels that don't receive nearly enough recognition.
Dick Schaap
Jimmy Breslin: Architect of :"New Journalism"
Michael Chabon: whose novel : "Wonderboys" and it's film adaptations are amongst my favorites!
Gonzo - speaks for himself because nobody else ever could!
Charles Bukowski
Henry Rollins
Bright lights, Big city - Jay McInerney

Music wise I LOVE 80's New Wave & punk,Goth/Industrial, Classical - it's my relaxation.
Grunge, some hardcore, metal- and yes that includes"Hair metal" too, Classic hip hop & R&B, as well as jazz & big band.

Rollins Band
Black Flag
William Control
Andy Black
Depeche Mode
Nick Cave
Afghan Whigs
Social D
Tiger Army
Brian Setzer
Chet Baker
Stan Kenton
I believe "In your room" by Depeche Mode is one of the sexiest songs ever and has some killer guitar riffs on it -

I'm a big NPR listener, BBC news, "The Diane Rehm show", "The World" are some of my favorite programs as I'm a news junkie but also enjoy their entertainment programs - "The Moth Radio Hour", "Wait, Wait don't tell me", "Car Talk ".

I'm Dyin' up here!
Forged in Fire
Black Sails
Street Outlaws
Bitchin' Rides - Man that Dave Kindig builds some GORGEOUS cars!
Bob's Burgers
The Inbetweeners
The Young Ones
Any "How to" Car show
America's Test Kitchen & Cook's Country
Lots of old TV shows on the retro TV channels from when I was growing up in the 70's-80's
Robot Chicken
The Rachel Maddow Show
Wish MSNBC would bring Keith Olbermann back.
Six things I could never do without
My Journal
Sandwiches - LOVE sandwiches & subs!
My imagination - for all those times I need to get lost for a while and also to power my writing.
Hot showers - I'm a total shower whore and I freely admit it !
Cookware - how else is a guy supposed to eat when he needs more than a sandwich?
The internet - sure I *could* live without it but I'd rather not.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The state of our country - i'm politically active, proud lefty.
What I want to do with my life, where am I going to be living in the next few months, What my next steps are, What TRULY makes me happy?
Learning to swing dance - care to be my partner?
Why so many women on here post photos of their feet .
On a typical Friday night I am
Unwinding from a long, busy week, sometimes hitting a local spot for a cocktail.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I know the fly spot where they got the champagne ! (If you get this we will get along very well!)
I also some VERY interesting and amusing dating stories that nobody else can claim and my friends will tell you could ONLY happen to me!
You should message me if
You're fun,intelligent, funny,enjoy great conversation, and want to meet someone new who's up for just about anything especially if it will produce a great story !
Ask me about the time I met Sherman Helmsley - aka "George Jefferson" at a record store in Boston or my "John Hughes mission" i completed with my sister two years ago during a cross country drive from Boston to Seattle as proof.
If you're into cross fit let's treat it like "fight club" & you know the #1 rule of fight club is right ? -
I will leave you with this question: "Can you rock it like this?"
The two of us