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My self-summary
Life is a fun and exciting journey of discovering and choosing who I am. Every discovery improves the journey and leaves me more open to appreciate and enjoy and love the people and events in my life.
I've discovered it is good to share life and fun to love. I've chosen this time in which to build a relationship that is loving, caring, fun, funny, open, honest, challenging, exciting, and full of pleasure.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying it!
Traveling, whether a day hike into the mountains, a scuba trip to a tropical island, camping, seeing a new country and culture, it's one of my favorite things to do.
Learning (generally not from books though any more) is also fun. I love developing new skills and delving into new fields of creation, thought, work and experience as much as I do traveling. Fortunately, that is a major portion of my work, so I get to do it every day and get paid for it too.
Sharing, it makes many things more fun. Through teaching, hanging out with friends, talking, touching, laughing, growing relationships.
Getting to know you, combines all three of those together.

I work for a software company in Boulder, and love it.
From time to time, I also work as a translator, healer, teacher of consciousness, healing and tai chi.

On a typical weekend you will find me hiking or snowshoeing in the mountains, hanging with friends or off somewhere learning or trying something new.
Cycling and climbing are also a lot of fun, though I've been doing less of both recently.
I’m really good at
Understanding, I can almost always see things through the eyes of whoever I'm dealing with. I also learn quickly. Both are very enjoyable for me, knocking down the barriers of my perception and seeing a wider and more diverse world.

Using my body, whether hiking, diving, yoga, tai chi, touching someone, stretching, a hot shower, feeling the sunshine or wind on my skin... experiencing my body is a continuous pleasure.

Relaxing, I can find the good and benefit in nearly any experience or situation, and let go to make the best of it.
The first things people usually notice about me
A sense of calm and confidence, and my smile :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books - Lord of the rings, Atlas shrugged, Sidharta, Loving what is, the Ender series, Dancing Wu Li masters, Stranger in a strange land.

Music is a favorite, what I listen to changes all the time.

Food - Nepali, Indian, Thai, and nearly anything that is simple and good.
Six things I could never do without
Breathing, movement, growth, love, enjoyment, sunshine, and that other thing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The nature of thinking, how my thoughts shape my world, and whether I believe them in the first place. It turns out, often I don't.

Where I'd like to travel next, and what I will do there.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can and do provide myself with everything that I need, especially love, joy, fun, satisfaction, support, interests and growth. Even cooking and cleaning.
So, what am I looking for? In my experience, all of these are even sweeter and more fun when shared, from abundance, rather than need. And when partners share life and love this way, they grow and expand together synergistically.
You should message me if
You want to.
The two of us