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My self-summary
I have been in Oregon now almost a year. I have settled in since my extended road trip west, with my best friend/primary partner & my dog Odin. I'm living in a vintage camper in the south hills. I expected Oregon to grow on me faster but it's not bad.

I was born in George Washington University Hospital, in Washington DC. I grew up on Massachusetts Avenue just inside Montgomery County, MD. My adolescence was my parent’s nightmare. I met my first husband when I returned from reform school in Utah at 17. He was a lunatic and a very talented artist. We were married for 7 years. When we split I went on the road as a Shaman’s assistant. We traveled to pagan gatherings up and down the east coast. I picked up extra cash along the way by selling glass dildos (blown by an old friend of mine). After that I was a slum lord in Baltimore for awhile, and commanded an unholy army of skate punks. Eventually I went on the lamb with a boyfriend 7 years my junior. It was a crazy journey that took us from Baltimore to Chicago to a beach in Key West and beyond before we broke up. So in 2010 I quit my grown-up corporate job! It was crushing my soul! I had to take out my bridge piercing and cover tattoos at work! I was with my second husband almost 7 years. That ended in June 2012. I recovered from the heartbreak. We had been on the road for a year living in a bomb squad truck we turned into a camper. I have a half sleeve of Kali on my right arm. She is awesome Jair (my artist & buddy) is amazing! The inside of my sleeve is cremation grounds corpses etc.. I had 3 micro-dermal implants, but they ripped out. I am a Polytraditionalist Pagan. I celebrate an eclectic blend of traditions. I am a member of an Interfaith Sanctuary of Earth Religion. My tribe of chosen family, come together regularly. I would say my primary practice is faiths that focus on ancestor revere such as Vodou, Ifa, and Santeria. The Ancestors are an important part of my everyday life. I have a special connection to the Hindu Goddess Kali. She is ever busy conquering my enemies, swallowing my fear, and destroying my hatred. I started out by reading about Celtic and Teutonic religion about 20 years ago. I have been part of a midatlantic pagan community for the last 14 years. I love festivals, drum circles, and running around the woods sky clad. I believe in the truth of all faiths. We must all find our own personal truth, our own path to the Goddess. I am pretty much a nudist. If the dog sees me put on clothes he gets excited and assumes we are going out! I am lucky enough to have the most interesting, exciting, sexy, crazy, fun, eclectic crowd of friends in the world! My family is brilliant bizarre and insane but never boring. I am a very blessed individual!

I am Smart, Passionate, and Unpredictable
What I’m doing with my life
I'm saving up to buy land & start a commune (sex cult, whatever) with my best friend. I really need to spend more time working on my book. A lot of my focus is on Reading & Writing Poetry & Prose mostly the writing of prose. I also spend a ton of my time Cooking, Watching Local Music, Camping, Going to Festivals, Drum Circles, Studying History, Ancient Religion, Getting Tattoos & Piercings, Smoking with my homies! I love the ocean, or any activities to do with the water rafting, fishing etc…
I’m really good at
Cooking, giving head (that doesn't mean I will blow you), and listening without judgment.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, my tits, or my opinions....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books:
"The Illuminatus Trilogy" by Robert Shea & Robert Anton Wilson,"American Gods A Novel" by Neil Gaiman, "1984" by George Orwell,"The Thirteenth Tale" by Diane Setterfield, "Anthem" by Ayn Rand, "Green Darkness" by Anya Seton, "The Pillars of the Earth", & "World Without End" by Ken Follett, "Middlesex: A Novel" by Jeffrey Eugenides, "Brave New World" by Aldous Huxley, "Howl, and Other Poems" by Allen Ginsberg, "The Bell Jar" by Sylvia Plath, "Importance of Being Earnest" by Oscar Wilde, "The Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho, "Flowers For Algernon" by Daniel Keyes, "Catcher in the Rye" by J D Salinger, "Fahrenheit 451" by Ray Bradbury, "The Little Prince" by Antoine De Saint Exupery,"The Secret Life of Bees" by Sue Monk Kidd,"The Great Gatsby" by F Scott Fitzgerald, and so many more I can't begin to say how much I love books!

I love all kinds of music I grew up going to Grateful Dead shows, I love classic rock, folk, punk, metal, country, etc...Mary Prankster, Monger, Val Yumm, Clutch, Fidel, Swarm of the Lotus, Trephine, Jesus Eater, Bob Dylan, Johnny Cash, Patsy Kline, Mr.Bungle, NWA, Superjoint Ritual, Morbid Angel, Frank Zappa, Primus, Leftover Crack, NIN, Beastie Boys, Ramones, Lords of Acid, Wesely Willis, Tom Petty, Donavon, Bjork, Gretchen Wilson, Sarah Evans, Sublime, Futha Mucka, Lake Trout, Mastadon, Flaming Lips, Iron Maiden, White Stripes, Dropkick Murphys, The Pixies, Jack Off Jill, Genitorturers, Adam Brodsky, 4 Non Blondes, Beck, Dillinger Escape Plan, Betty Dylan, Bob Marley, Black Flag, Concrete Blonde, Eric Clapton, Jar Flies, Kittie, Monster Puss, Otto’s Daughter, Stevie Ray Vaughan, Steve Miller Band, Tenacious D, Ween, Cindy Lauper, Cowboy Junkies, Janes Addiction, The Kinks, Police, Joni Mitchel, Arlo Guthrie, Iron Butterfly, Janis Joplin, Jefferson Airplane, CSN, Neil Young, Stevie Nicks, Pink Floyd, The Rolling Stones, Audio Slave, Choking Victim, CKY, Danzig, Dead Kennedys, The Dead Milkmen, Frank Sinatra, Gwar, Leonard Cohen, Misfits, MSI, Soul Coughing, Eternal Ruin, Weezer, The T-Shirts, American Centaur, The Springfields, Karma Payment Plan, etc…….

I love to cook! I love cheese of all varieties from around the world! French food is my favorite if I had to choose one type of cuisine.
Six things I could never do without
Sex, Cheese, Weed, My Best Friend, My Dog, & Books in no particular order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Fictional Characters, My direction (or lack there of) in life, Religon, New Recipes, Sex…

No one likes an unsolicited dick pic!
If I want to see your cock I will ask!
On a typical Friday night I am
I could be anywhere, talking to anyone but I am likely baked & if the music is good I am dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a super up front person with pretty limited boundaries regarding revealing who I am, where I have been, & what I want.
You should message me if
You live in Eugene, Oregon! You're interesting, you have a bunch of awesome tattoos, you know what's up with the good local shows, you love everything about books &/or you want me to join your book club, you have land I can rent & build a yurt on, you long to live on the road.....

I'm not interested in people who live in other states or countries. I'm not looking for pen pals.
The two of us