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My self-summary
I'm in an open relationship with a marvelous man and we're exploring all that life has to offer.

I think bad grammar is a turnoff.

I don't take like too seriously. I'm often a bit silly and being overly cynical all the time isn't me at all.

I'm allergic to wheat, seafood, potatoes and a number of other things, so I'm exploring the options left to me. I'm moving towards having a Paleo diet, which is quite a new experience.

I have ADHD so, I do better with bulleted lists than long paragraphs.

I recently read Brené Brown's book "Daring Greatly" after watching her TED talk, and I'm actively trying to live wholeheartedly, which is a lot more difficult than it sounds. Ask me if you want to know ore about it. (Or watch her TED talk here:
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to live life to its fullest (How's that for pithy?)

About a week before my most recent birthday I had a conversation with a friend, and during the course of it she asked "How have you never seen that?" (referring to the movie Field of Dreams). Well, I've been asked that question so many times in my adult life that I decided to do something about. On my birthday, I decided to make a life initiative to watch a new movie every week. So far, I've been fulfilling this, and have been so grateful for my expanding horizons. I've attempted to rotate between new movies (in theatres), classic movies, and then just random movies that my friends have recommended. This has lead me to watch some incredible, and also some pretty awful, films, but it's definitely been a worthwhile endeavor and one I would not have done if I hadn't made specific intentions to do it.
*** As an addendum to this, I did manage to watch 83 movies over the year. I think since I had such great success with the life initiative that I will keep it going.
I’m really good at
I'd like to think that I have a way with words. I have a pretty prodigious vocabulary and I know how to use it.

I also really like getting organized. IKEA, The Container Store most office supply stores are better than candy stores for me. Often, I will spend a day helping my friends clean/organize rooms in their houses.

I'm also a really good listener. I really like being there for the people I'm close to.
The first things people usually notice about me
My laugh. I laugh a lot and it's very genuine, distinct, and a little loud (apparently).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TV Shows:
Modern Family
Game of Thrones
The Big Bang Theory
How I Met Your Mother
Downton Abbey
Once Upon a Time
Pushing Daisies

The Night Circus
The Great Gatsby
The Picture of Dorian Gray
Eat, Pray, Love
Harry Potter
Murder on the Orient Express
(You can check out all of my books at:

Gone With the Wind
The Philadelphia Story
As Good As It Gets
My Fair Lady
Love Actually
The Holiday
Moulin Rouge
The Devil Wears Prada
Notorious (The Hitchcock version)

Lady Gaga
Kelly Clarkson

Peanut Butter

Pumpkin Cheesecake

Pumpkin Spice Lattes
Chai Lattes
Six things I could never do without
Coffee (especially pumpkin spice lattes)
Modern Pharmaceuticals
My "To Do" Lists
Good conversations
My Puma collection (It has been quite the investment)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Being authentic and living wholeheartedly
Getting through my To Do list
My future
My friends
On a typical Friday night I am
Out adventuring, saving the world, or taking it over... it all depends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a pretty open book once we've started talking, but putting something on here seems rather public... as such, I think I'll just share that I only do laundry about once every 4 months (yes, I have about 150 pairs of underwear.)
You should message me if
* You believe that adventure is out there
* You've smiled while reading this profile
* Your vernacular greetings don't consist of "sup" and "yo" and you are adept at using good grammar
* You strive to be a successful in life (however you define that)
The two of us