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My self-summary
My profile used to be a lot more in depth. I've tailored it down quite a bit as I think this is really enough to start a conversation and surely enough to know if you'd like to exchange pleasantries and potentially more.

Mississippi to Portland 5 years down.

(You don't have to be. You just need to be respectful of it)

Strong sense of autonomy.

I'm pretty direct. Romance me anyways. 💕

Cosmos is cool, space is cool, science is cool, Philosphy is cool, being intelligent is cool... Crystals are cool... I like cool stuff.

I'm a pretty excellent conversationalist. Always working on listening more.
What I’m doing with my life
Skee Ball.
Petting Kitties.
Petting Doggies.
Going To The Movies.
Weekend Trips.
( I prefer to leave my profile on doesn't drink because I don't drink socially but this is the exception. I might get crazy and have a pinã colada at a tiki bar once in a blue moon or a beer after a long hike.)
Nature Stuff. (camping, hiking and what not)
I’m really good at
Being sincere/ direct
Keeping my life mostly drama free
Being a hopeless romantic
Clear communication
Asking for what I need

Stuff I'm no good at whatsoever:
Biting my tongue
Hanging anything on the walls
Taking myself too seriously
The first things people usually notice about me
It's probably either resting bitch face if I'm deep in thought or l'm laughing loudly.

My dentist says I have beautiful teeth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Blues, Jazz, Soul, Surf, Motown, Honky Tonk, Metal, lots of rap/hip hop... the usual blend of embarrassing pop tunes...

Currently summer jamz are consisting of Beach House, La Luz, Allah-Las and the like...

The Secretary, Ghostworld, Wristcutters, John Waters, David Lynch, Jean-Pierre Jeunet, There Will be Blood, Coen brothers, Vincent Price, British comedy, Trailer Park Boys, MST3K, Freaks and Geeks, True Blood, Dr. Who, futurama, Twin Peaks, Danger 5, Bobs Burgers. Etc. The usual shit... Whatever makes me seem to be the coolest, hottest and most diverse person in your current intellectual Circe. Oh yah, broad city... Parks and Rec... Always sunny. Good/ also maybe horrible shit.

Some classics and some modern stuff. Sci-fi & fantasy. Lots of Philosophy and non-fiction. Memoirs... I would like to read more and I've been making it a priority... I'm always open to a reading suggestion.

Food: If it's vegan I'll probably eat it...
The six things I could never do without
1. Friends
2. My Fatshit Cat
3. Affection/Compassion/Patience
4. Weights/training
5. Coconut Oil
6. Adventures (even little ones)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Motorcycles. Motorcycles. Motorcycles.
Lifting. Lifting. Lifting.
Attractive people (spring fever)
My cat.
How growing up is hella weird.
Who am I now that so many things have happened to me?
If I'll take all the trips I want.
I should be saving more money...
Do I want to live alone or save more money?
Why little things bother people so much.
How I should be camping more.
New Orleans and the south in general. I miss it so much sometimes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Making pho.
Eating pho.
Wishing I was eating pho.
At the movies
Metal shows.
Catching up with friends
Some random adventure maybe?
Netflix and dinner.
Passing out far too early from exhaustion.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
:::Loud Tina Belcher moan:::
I have a FL.
Kink friendly.
420 friendly.
PMA with a nihilistic twist.
You should message me if
You feel so inclined.

You'd like to take me to play Skee Ball

You'd like to take a walk through forest park, Mt Tabor or on the East/West Bank esplanade.

You can reccomend comics for sci-fi /occult nerds.

You like thick girls. (Well, this specific one)

Confidence doesn't scare you.

You're a ginger (soft spot)

You'd like to discuss things like this:

If you'd like to take a crack at these because it's super intriguing to me...


You're open to the possibility of actual intimacy. I have the desire and capacity to really get to know someone. It's just the way I operate and it doesn't frighten me. I'm pretty charming at light hearted subjects but I want to dig deeper...

I'm interested (read: emotionally stable and available for) in something enriching and long term but I'm completely open to different types of connections and I prefer for things to start out casually and fun. I'm not in any rush to get anywhere and I like things to develop organically... Be it friendship or something else entirely.

Also... I can't see likes so if you think you might like me just send me a message.