45Syracuse, United States
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My self-summary
Dear OKCupid, there is no way that I got 57 likes overnight. You have a robot problem, and I am way too sexy for digital love.

Please note: I am not single. If this is a problem, I am sorry, but I would rather not mislead someone. I'm in an open but solid marriage with a wonderful woman. Please feel free to ask me about it.

I’m a forty something academic professional guy, teaching in Syracuse. I have an MA in Language Arts. I’m also a fencing coach. I workout about three times a week, I lift weights, run, and fence regularly. I read a lot and teach literature and writing.

I'm looking to make friends, both with and without benefits. I like variety, coffee, girls and life itself.

ask me if you want to know more.

I am educated, athletic, and smiling
What I’m doing with my life
I'm considering making a short movie. I have no real financing, and no film experience beyond acting, and no camera. I do, however have an idea. It's fun, sexy and kinky. It involves an ice cream cone. I'm certain it would not be safe for work or kids. If you are curious, ask me about it some time.
I’m really good at
Making love. OK that was too direct. I’m a very good swordsman, a good listener, teacher and friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair, my eyes and my sense of humor. A lot of folks like my tattoosas well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Hemingway first, but I read all the classics, I also like science fiction quite a bit. I like movies, but don’t get enough time to see all the ones I would like to see. As for food, I like spicy.
Six things I could never do without
Wine, Women and Song… oh yeah, I need three more.


Good books


The smell of the morning air after a stormy night
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Wine, Women and Song…

well....Women anyway.
On a typical Friday night I am
hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask and you may find out.
You should message me if are not trying to sell something. I can't stress that enough.

Seriously, I'm interested in meeting folks for friendship etc. who knows what can happen. Let's get lunch and talk about it.
The two of us