-You say something more intellegent than "hey shortie, baby, mami, cutie, sexy, etc", i'm not ur home girl.
- no woman likes to be called "cutie, kiddo or adorable" so if those adjectives are anywhere in your message its already a no.
-refrain from dumbass cocky moves like, "lemme git yo number" or "lets make some magic". Pick up lines are tacky as hell.
- you dont have a ridiculously stupid username that sends up every red flag in the book.
-ur respectful, nice and considerate. Otherwise, move on along.