Ca_Velazquez
30 Newark, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a kind, kinky, sex positive, egalitarian who's greatest motivator is the good story. I've been all over this beautiful earth taking in everything I can, doing what gets my blood pumping, and loving fellow travelers who have their own love and story to share.

I identify as polyamorous and am not looking for hook-ups. I cherish the people that are involved with me.
What I’m doing with my life
I decided to get lost for a bit and give living for a living a shot.
I try to travel as much as I can for rock climbing and scuba diving - which are my biggest passions right now, but when I'm not training for stunt work, I'm running clients through drills as a personal trainer

Also finishing up my degree and getting more into a goth/kink friendly lifestyle.
I’m really good at
Finding an equal balance between the cerebral and the physical. In all honesty I'm kind of a nerdy jock. Get me on a cliff face with a copy of the Ethical Slut or Dorian Gray and I'm a happy man.
The first things people usually notice about me
My adventurous attitude.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I'm a huge Laurell K. Hamilton fan, and Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde is one of my new favorite classics. I'm a classic literary vampire/supernatural fiction fiend. I'm trying to more actively read non-fiction works, while reading more classics.

Movies: I don't even know where to begin.

Shows: Firefly, Castle, Sherlock, Doctor Who, Vikings, all Anime, Newsroom, House of Cards.... the list goes on. oh and i can't forget about The Daily Show, Colbert Report, and Last Week Tonight with Jon Oliver

Food: I enjoy international cuisine and absolutely love to pair my meals with a good bottle of wine or other beverage.

Music: Eclectic is the easiest way to describe my music taste but if I can move to it I'll turn it up. I have a soft spot for good latin music though. Lately I've been really big into -kind of- electrojazz - Sneaker pimps, Stateless, and portishead
The six things I could never do without
The Internet, it is an amazing tool that feeds my hunger for knowledge.
My Gear... Scuba, Climbing, Martial Arts, and the gear for anything else I want to get into.
My motorcycle... love the freedom of the open road
Books...lots of them
My Friends, they've introduced me to new things and supported me through so much.
A stylish look for whatever I'm doing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
This is a difficult question, I'm a very introspective person. I tend to think how to better apply bushido to my life or what new skill I want to learn next.
On a typical Friday night I am
I go where the phone calls or the mood takes me. But I prefer to be active, so I try to start my evenings at Delaware Rock Gym or the gym and either end at a bar or at a table with friends playing board games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The most private thing I'm willing to admit on this profile without knowing you is that I am a United States Marine with multiple combat deployments.

I'm actually trying to break the habit of identifying and labeling myself as a Marine. While I'm very proud of this fact and wear it openly, it is an identity that I've hidden behind or limited myself to for a very long time.
You should message me if
Yes you should.
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