CaliClar1
33 San Diego, United States
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My self-summary
I usually feel slightly out of place, but I know I fit somewhere - and I'm fine with that. I read, dance, drink, sleep. I labor to pen self-summaries. I have been on my own for a long time, and although I'm proud of my independence, that doesn't mean I want to be alone. My brain is on almost constantly, and I tend to speak my mind, which can be a good or bad combination.

I am open-minded, nerdy, and analytical
What I’m doing with my life
Do I have to be doing something? Trying to figure out school, work...life. I believe that each book I read and DVD I watch is worth something. Each piece of art I view is a worthy check mark. Trying to make more time for my flute. Wondering if I'll ever pin down my thesis.
I’m really good at
Not holding my tongue. Hmmm, or is that being bad at something else. Getting people to like me...getting people to hate me. Procrastinating for my thesis research. Do you really need to know all this ahead of time?
The first things people usually notice about me
The blonde can lead to a lot of misconceptions. I can be flirty and shy at the same time. I'm happy (but maybe they don't notice that has taken work).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
If I even began to list that here it will scroll on for pages.
Movies and books are wonderful escapes and I see nothing wrong with
extended marathons. Oh, and sushi anyone???
The six things I could never do without
Intellectual stimulation, genital stimulation, freedom, a good drink, DVDs, the ability to chuckle at myself when I seem like whiney.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. Over thinking about over thinking. Analyzing. Why society isn't cool with women not wanting to settle down. Will my mom ever forgive me? Sex and everything that goes with that. Where to get some decent Ethiopian food. Everything again.
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical? That's not a word for me. Not that I try not be be, just doesn't seem to work out that way. I can be a shut in at times, or be out with friends. Not really into the club scene or anything, and school is for weekends too when you are a geeky grad student :-P
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes people don't like me and I'm ok with that. I relish junk tv as much as reading the classics at times. Sometimes I think I ruined my family, and they never tried to correct me on this, but I've worked to move past. I have been diagnosed with social anxiety disorder and I get self conscious about it sometimes.
You should message me if
You actually read (yes, books). You understand angst, but aren't depressed. You are not some frat boy who likes "girl on girl". You think more of me than just what you see in a few pictures. You like a girl with a brain. You are female and want to say hello :-)
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