It's becoming all clear why guys are pulling out of the dating scene. : https://youtu.be/zIHVLwF9LHY .
I've been in Japan for the last 8 years so I have no idea but this would explain why guys are not marrying.
Well about me... I'm an International Trade Specialist / Economist for the Golden State of California coming back from a long-term assignment of 8 years in Japan.
Being the representative for California to Japan and expanding California Ag. and premium boutique wines to support our Northern Cali appellations was an honor.
Lived in Northern Thailand N.E. of Chiang Mai toward the Laos border on an Econ Development project for 8 months. Seeing the distinct cultures the Thai, Laos, Cambodian, Hmong and Mienh was amazing. I would deff say it's they that hold the temple within. They focus on your center who you are as a person, very natural, very solid. Happy to be who they naturally are.
To save time for boh of us. I will say this now. I’m not a fan of the entitlement, it’s all about me garbage that seems to be the prevailing voice here in Sac. There's a lot of big fish in the world and I can assure you they're not here. While overseas for 8 years I only heard Sacramento mentioned once. And the girl that mentioned Sac described it as a suffocating experience anyhow point being this region isn't even on the radar. Spoiled brats, and "I'm the bomb!" put up with my crap girl's... please click next.
And the same for the “I’m sarcastic” types…If I wanted more sarcasm in my life I’d give my legal team a call. My life is relaxed and pleasant and I plan to keep it that way.
My idea was to come home to marry another patriot. I deff need to rethink that point. I've lived for 8 years in a culture that there is no word "I" voice only "we". Seems things are "all about me" and what you can do for me" out here. Luckily we have the global market to choose from.
I'm Bi-racial 4th generation on both sides. Few things irritate me but one that does are people that are fake. So keep it simple.
Abroad most of the guys I hung with were Canadian, Aussies, Turks, a few Brits here and there, Kiwi's (New Zealanders), German, Saudi's and of course natives. All I can say is that time and time again life has proven to me we all share much more common ground than different ground. Sitting at a table with guys that couldn't be more different to you in every way at first look. But taking the time to discover those hidden treasures of common ground that bond you as brother. Priceless....
Well, color of eyes hazel green all the men in my family have them. No artificial contacts or any of that fake stuff made the old fashioned way DNA. Body type athletic.
My personality type very liberal and tolerant I rarely use the word “no”. But as you can see at the same time frank. I say what I mean and mean what I say. I’m an optimist, not a pessimist. People always ask how? Simple I'm a man of now and a doer. Keep it simple. Those that complicate things usually are those that have time to waste.
In image casual, deff a short’s, T-shirt and Teva’s kind of guy. As far as the suit pic in the profile just displaying I don't wear my pants hanging around my knees.
I'm not an egotist nor guy that tries to cast some shadow over people nor do I size people up.
Everyone has the same potential the primary difference in people are the books they read and the people they meet.
I enjoy just about everything favorite activities reading Biographies, Econ, managerial, business development, Trade, and languages. Favorite activities, anything with water... scuba and skin diving, water polo you name it. White water kayaking is also a passion of mine. Other likes are Yoga, meditation, camping, dancing, martial arts ( Jujitsu, Kick Boxing, Taekwondo, combat styles) Gym, clubbing, playing ice hockey, and cultural events.
So who am I looking for now that I'm back home? As you might guess not the typical sarcastic, narcissist, gal here in California. For some reason, I click much better with women not from California. Different coding perhaps more communal. She'll be a woman of maturity which means purged of ego. She'll be level-minded, global in perspective or at least open to things of difference.
Keeps men woman relations simple and direct. Deff not one that lives in fear talking about safe space. LOL Looks are not a priority. Yes for most guys they are…but from the above you can see I'm not "most guys". Passion, Fiber, and core, are what speak to me...Point being I'm trying to prolong my life not shorten it.
I'm not looking for a perfect woman. Just one that fits me. As you can see I didn't write for mass appeal but for a niche product.
I know it was a tuff read but there are no games on this table. Most professionals have zero time for left right stuff just straight ahead.
If the above sounds like you say hi. If’ you're from the Bay Area no worries I’m originally from Union City it’s close.
Thank you to all who read the book above and reached out to share.
Feverishly trying to finish the book I'm writing about the economic power shift and military issues between the United States, JP and China. 290 down just a few more to go!
* Modern Technology (PC, iPhone, com networks)
* Those that touch & fill my spirit
* Long night drives
* Coffee Houses
* Global Cultures of the World (Magica!)
* Have interests in International Commerce / Business / Cultures
* Passionate about life, enjoy discovering and trying new things