27 Somerville, United States
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My self-summary
I've been called a walking contradiction.
I've been called worse than the cat.
These are pretty accurate descriptions.

Kink friendly (sub) - Gender : Male - INFP
Ethically non-monogamous - Pants-on-head-goofball label the shit outta myself, all the better to understand me my dear. (As much as I love to delve deeper into subjects I'm not a fan of repeating the minutiae, so if you need a recap it's here.)

- - Not a unicorn, sorry couples! - -

I am not into casual encounters.
What I’m doing with my life
Working hard on self-actualization, as ever one does.

Doing a reception gig... but I'm starting to get kinda bored of it, and further infatuated by the idea of running or helping run a household in addition to part time and volunteer work. I'm all about dat hospitality.

Sometimes I also do arty things.
Lately I feel like I just talk a lot, online anyhow.

Currently I have a lovely primary fella, and two other partners whom I love and care for very much.
I’m really good at
Eating tasty food. Like, the best.
Not taking everything terribly seriously, yet actually comprehending the full gravity of things.
Being easily distracted, and easily excited...
Being a space-cadet, and incredibly tactile.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have glasses and I burp REALLY loudly... :/
Or my smile, when I actually do smile.
And that I'm kind of a weirdo.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Keeping this list incredibly brief, mostly because my recall for trivia is horrid, and I have MANY interests, in all these areas -

Books: Neil Gaiman, Garth Nix, Tamora Pierce, Holly Black, Mercedes Lackey, "As Simple As Snow" etc. (and graphic novels holy cow... such as Preacher, Transmet, Birds of Prey, Locke & Key...) [Fantasy. I love fantasy, biographies, and humor writing]

Movies: Hanna, The Craft, No Country for Old Men, Death Proof, Labyrinth, The Quick and the Dead, MirrorMask, Practical Magic etc.

Shows: Bones, Bob's Burgers, Supernatural, United States of Tara, American Horror Story, Archer, Hannibal etc.

Music: Amanda Palmer, Marina & the Diamonds, Die Antwoord, Kimbra, The Animals, Rammstein, Patti Smith, Genesis, Type O Negative etc. (I like every genre of music.... just not every band within said genres. Except for sludge metal, that's the only kind of music so far that I think I could do without.)

Food: Sushi, Middle-Eastern (Lebanese), peaches & blackberries, Dim sum, churros & similar, etc.

Vidya games should also be a catagory, even though I tend to back-seat game mostly...
The six things I could never do without
Those warm days with soft breezes that just envelope you like a full-body kiss of cool... There are actually many things I couldn't do without. Experiencing all the little things life has to offer, that's important to me. The big things, too.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to not be intimidated by past experience. Am I just trying to sate an insatiable wanderlust, or am I running away? What it means to be a philosopher. And hedgehogs... and body mods... My happiest self would be much more pierced, shaved, colored and tattooed... I love utilizing my body as a canvas.
And how on earth do I STOP thinking?
On a typical Friday night I am
Typically finishing work late and starting the primary BF weekend routine. (Can't see each other during the week much 'cos work is work.)

Ideally, chilling out with some folks, having some drinks and cuddles and laughs, is always super excellent. Dancing/flailing about to some loud lovely band would be even better, followed by the aforementioned things! I have a good deal of energy after work if something piques my interest...

But also I'd like to be home by myself being a nasty hobbitses...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Wolfman's got nards.

But on a more serious note, I'm diagnosed with PTSD, depression, and anxiety. I'm a delicate little flower, and that frustrates me to no end. But I'm hell bent on stability, well on my way to shelving these labels for good.

If you think these issues mean I'm nutters and there's no hope for me, then I've no need for you.
You should message me if
You don't mind taking the initiative.
You are certain you can handle my shenanigans.
You don't mind sharing.
You are patient, honest, and kind, but not a pushover.
You don't mind taking things slow.

...and if you're a personal trainer who needs another client? Because I'm sucking EXTRA hard at this, motivating to get back on track with regular exercise, despite wanting it fairly badly. :|