I love: to dance (take some classes), to sing, travel, outdoor rec (hiking, biking, cross-country skiing), yoga, being active and playful generally, film, to cook and eat, hardy laughs, getting away for the weekend, or schlubbing around my apartment in my pj's. I'm on the board of a local homelessness organization.
I recognize a friend by s/he who laughs generously at my jokes. Sometimes run in a new agey or hippie circle, but am often amongst the more ironic participants. I'm very close to my mom and my sister, and a doting aunt to my niece and nephew who live locally.
I also love to travel, have lived internationally, and am most stimulated by developing countries. Destinations on my wish list include Brazil, Ireland and Scotland, West and South Africa, Seattle and Vancouver, and so on and so on.
I am not religious, but find myself looking towards spirituality (e.g. mindfulness) more in recent years. I also come from a family rich in tradition (Jewish, Greek, and "New Yorker"), which is a great source of pleasure and entertainment.
(CambridgeKookla is a misnomer ever since I crossed the river in June. JPKookla now.)
I worked in international development and obesity prevention before travel. Project management and a commitment to doing good in the world are the constants.
I enjoy going out of my way for people: facilitating professional connections, introducing friends who live in the same city or share interests, playing matchmaker, etc.
I can also say that I actively try to be as conscientious, kind, and honest at all times. And sometimes falter.
TV: Downton Abbey and Louie CK were :( the only shows I'm totally loyal to. I really enjoyed the Oliver Kitteridge series and Catastrophe. Thinking about taking up Mad Men again, but I'd rather do that while spooning my new hot boyfriend :)
Music: Gillian Welch, Brandi Carlile, Neil Young, lots of other folk/rock, Lauryn Hill, Ethiopian jazz and vocalists, some pop (ex. Lorde, Sia), indie rock, etc. Emphasis on etc. I suppose I fall healthily left of center on the folk/rock spectrum, and most other spectra for that matter.
Books: I've been on a Buddhism and mindfulness reading streak in the last year or so. Also recently read "Between the World and Me," which had a strong impact.
Food and drink: There are few foods that I don't like. Indian and Greek food and ice cream rank pretty high and I can enjoy finer dining but generally seek out low-profile neighborhood spots especially ethnic restaurants. I have vegetarian leanings but like meat, too. Eat lots of fruits and veggies. I enjoy beer, wine, and cocktails, but all in moderation.
You have the time and are in the right emotional space to integrate someone new into your life.