37Clarksville, United States
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My self-summary
** I'm not really datable right now, but would be willing to talk to and get to know someone. I currently have cancer again and have since April. I'm not saying this for sympathy, but more so to tell why I don't reply to anyone right now. I don't think it's fair to withhold this information, especially on a dating site where people are expecting to find someone to date. Like I said before, I don't feel very pretty or datable right now. **

First things first- Weird things happen to me all the time; nothing that you should be afraid of, but just realize that if we get together, you're definitely in for an adventure. I'm not perfect by any means and have made plenty of mistakes. I’m fun loving and affectionate and am ready to find someone who will treat me like I deserve to be treated. I've had a rough year and a half or so, and am ready to put the past behind me and find what makes me happy. That's not to say that I need a relationship to be happy, but it would definitely be nice. I like to think I’m pretty smart and witty, and I have a tendency to be a little sarcastic. I graduated with a Biology degree and Chemistry and Criminal Justice minors. I was a stay-at-home mom for close to 5 years, until I found out some hard truths, started my divorce, and was unexpectedly thrown back into the working world. I have a job I love that makes me happy, but I will never get rich from it and may not ever even be 'comfortable'. I'm okay with that. I truly believe that there are only a few problems in life that can’t be fixed with sushi, wine, or McDonald’s French fries. I'm a little quirky and definitely not like anyone else. I'm fortunate to have a beautiful little girl, a supportive family and a great group of girlfriends. I'm practical but spontaneous; nurturing but competitive; peaceful but energetic. I usually end up staying up late -- whether it's to go out (very rare), catch up on my TiVo, or just read a good book. As far as music goes, I like country, pop/Top 40, Jimmy Buffet and some rap. Yeah, I know it's a little all over the place. I definitely have an adventurous streak and am usually up for anything. I absolutely LOVE to travel, see new places and experience things the way others do. My absolute dream vacation would be to take a European cruise. Sipping wine in Napa Valley wouldn’t be so bad either :)

I’m looking for a man who ONLY has eyes for me, who can make me laugh, and appreciates that no matter what, I’m a mom first. Please… mean what you say and say what you mean!!! Let's just start with being friends & get to know each other... and see what happens. I'm not really shy, except when it comes to this for some reason. So if I view you and don't message, it's kind of like the whole cliche 'it's not you, it's me' type thing. I RARELY message people first. Feel free to message me anyway... unless you wear 'wife-beaters' or have lots of self pics taken in your bathroom mirror.... sorry, I just know you won't be my type.

**On a side note, if you want your own kids, I'm probably not your girl. I had cancer two years ago and can't have anymore children. I'm not saying this for attention or sympathy, but I do feel like it's something important that I need to be upfront about and tell right from the beginning.
What I’m doing with my life
Working crazy hours and trying to spend as much of my free time with my daughter as I can
I’m really good at
-opening Capri Suns
-running into things
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes maybe. That's what I hear about the most. Then they hear me talk and say something about my accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love all kinds of 'who done it' type of books and my favorite authors to read are Patricia Cornwell and James Patterson.

The types of movies I tend to gravitate towards are comedies, dramas, and an occasional scary movie. Most of the time, though, I have to watch those during the day and through my fingers with my hand on my face. The Hangover is my absolute favorite movie!!

As far as t.v. shows I like, I like all of the CSI's, NCIS, Criminal Minds, the Glades, Sons of Anarchy, Dexter, Prison Break, Weeds, etc...

I already mentioned before that I'm pretty much open to most types of music. Huge Jimmy Buffett fan! Not a big fan of the screaming, Metallica-type music, but to each his own I guess.

Some of my favorite foods are sushi, french fries, pizza, a good ol' greasy burger, Coke Zero and wine of course. I sound like a total fatty, but I love food! If you're a salad, raw vegetables, only-grilled-food type guy, then we may not work.
Six things I could never do without
Obvious answers are my daughter, friends, and family, but other things are...

My phone
ponytail holder
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Currently I think about a ton of things..... Whether or not I'll ever find my Prince Charming... Whether or not I'll ever get back to where I'm truly happy with where I am in life or at least content with where it's headed...
On a typical Friday night I am
Working or spending time with my daughter.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm ridiculously addicted to reality t.v. I know it's mind-numbing garbage, but it's one of my guilty pleasures.
You should message me if
You do not have a half-naked, self-pic taken in your bathroom mirror
You are not wearing a wife-beater in any of your pics
You fall within my desired age range
You don't mind that I'm a mom first
The two of us