CapeJazzdrmr
64 Mashpee, United States
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My self-summary
For those who have been kind enough to "like" me. Thank you! - but...I'm not a paid member, so...I'll never know who you are. Please, have a little courage! Drop me a note!

I'm a native "Maine-ah" who brings all those classic "DownEast" core values with him: honesty, straightforwardness, ingenuity, a dry wit, and a deep twinkle in his eye, but most of all a solid strength of character and trustworthiness that is the very essence of true "Men from Maine."

This is not about the superficial. Make no mistake...There is nothing that attracts me more than engaging in great conversation with a woman of depth and intelligence, wit, and confidence. My search is for someone with whom to explode in laughter, sparkle in smiles and delight at the great and small; and at the same time, someone to admire and to cherish at the greatest depths of our relationship.

Life is an empty journey when not shared. Together there is great joy at the theater, especially musical theater, museums...I love the beach at sunset, historic waterfronts, renewed historic districts, poking through second-hand shops, antique malls, the quiet of lakeside, the serenity of a cruise ship in the warmth of the Caribbean...Let's explore your favorite places!..deep intimacy and affection...so much more. It's all about "us" - not all about me... I haven't done it all, I don't know it all, I'm not always right, and I'll admit it when I'm wrong. Don't believe me? I hope you'll be intrigued enough to explore further, because it's absolutely true.

I love to swim. I'm in an in-door pool at least 5 days a week. The golf links with a cart? Sure! Oh, the game will be pathetic...but fun! Ping pong, the bowling ally, cribbage, You get the idea. There was a day when I was an outstanding softball pitcher and first baseman...but...today? my knees just aren't cooperating as much as I'd like. Yet, life holds so much for us both to enjoy that doesn't include hiking the Appalachian Trail.

I'm nearly two years into a complete lifestyle change that is amazing! Just look at the photos on this site. The most recent is the "profile photo" here, with the plum colored shirt. Among those photos is over 60 pounds - gone! ..... and more drops away, a little at a time, each month!

Here's all I ask...Please, be over everything that needs to be over...really over... Allowing the tragedies of the past to take away the joys of the future just seems completely wrong to me. If, you're emotionally and spiritually ready to explore a truly great relationship in your life, please, just say, hello!
I'd love to hear from you.
What I’m doing with my life
Starting that "down slope" to retirement...de-cluttering my house, my garage, my life!...shrinking me more and more!, striving hard to be the best I can be.
I’m really good at
listening to you, engaging conversation, making a great meal, music on many levels, soft snuggles, "having your back" when the going gets tough - and that's a true commitment!
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm told what people notice first is my "radio" voice, my smile, my sincere and engaging eyes, and my sincere appreciation for the woman across the table. It is all about you...Yes, it really is !
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I actually love "chick flicks," historical movies, and music from the turn of the century through to just a little bit of classic disco. I love the theater, especially musical theater. Asian food of all kinds is my favorite. If its in the sea, its on my plate! I also enjoy the "white" Italian, Greek, Sicilian/Mediterranean food.
The six things I could never do without
the love of my family and friends
good wine, a fine bourbon
a piano/guitar/accesss to music
Dunkin Donuts coffee!
living near/easy access to the ocean
great seafood
a wonderfully loving & passionate partner
I spend a lot of time thinking about
....the great joys to come, and with whom I will share them
On a typical Friday night I am
who knows....maybe out at a local jazz club playing or enjoying the music of great friends - or just enjoying the serenity of "us."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I truly want to admire and cherish that most special woman in my life again. At the same time, I want to feel her love for me. This is absolutely fundamental to who I am.
You should message me if
You're not in it just for the moment. Who knows where it may lead. But..it would lead anywhere unless it begins!
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