66 Albuquerque, United States
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My self-summary
I stopped working 2 months ago, YEY! I'm hoping to find someone who I love and love being with for travel, adventures and continuing to grow, learn and enjoy life. I am funny, sexy, caring and take good care of myself (most of the time!) I also look forward to taking the energy I have had to expend on work to new interests, ways of being, and new horizons....I don't know what horizons that would be-but, I am open to envisioning the next stage of my life as something totally new including in a new place. I have lived in New Mexico for 30 years but, could be happy someplace else particularly with some humidity and water! I have experienced relationships that mutually make our lives better, easier and more fun and want this again.
What I’m doing with my life
Just returned from the Blues festival in Silver City, and soaking at Fayewood Hot Springs- planning my next trip to Vancouver in August. Trying to keep my drought tolerant plants and trees alive in 100 degree daily heat. Reading, art, time with friends, relaxing. Looking at trips I want to take- Cuba, Iceland, Malaysia, Vancouver Island and CO to see friends. Looking forward to having the time and energy to date. Catching up on house projects I didn't have much time to do while working- just painted my guest bedroom and am organizing stuff!
I’m really good at
Being a good intimate partner and friend, gardening, nurturing, dancing, cooking, having fun even while alone although this does get old!

I think I am good at evolving and growing and work at it-I am coachable!
The first things people usually notice about me
Good energy and look younger than my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Bill Maher, John Oliver, Shameless, The Walking Dead- HBO and Showtime series are great. I love a good mystery, literature, and some non-fiction about interesting people, events. Just read Nevada Barr's latest Boar island. I love the blues, but also most music from Dengue Fever to Brazilian, rockabilly. Favorite CD's that I never get tired of are "Pink Panthers Penthouse Party", and music from Peter Gunn and Ultra Lounge collections. Love jazz- Stanley Turrentine, Joshua Redmond, Ornette Coleman, Monk, Miles, Coltrane. Looking forward to spring.
The six things I could never do without
Music (including KUNM), art, love, support and interaction with friends, being in nature, fun, being able to grow and learn in relationships and spiritually(not organized religion).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Being free and creative in retirement! Travel, moving forward to further growth and exploration, hoping there will be someone to share this with me and have fun with! The horror of a Donald Trump presidency- how Hilary just lost my support by picking Kaine as her VP.
On a typical Friday night I am
Unwinding from the week- alone, or with friends, hearing music, art scrawl or catching up with shows I like.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Just ask a question- what's private and in what context?
You should message me if
You think we might be kindred spirits. You are not a Republican and like Bernie Sanders and what he stands for, don't smoke cigarettes, are good at communicating, like to grow and evolve as a person, are looking for a partner who has friends and interests other than you, without addictions, don't believe creationism should be taught in school, and thinks that people should be able to grow pot for their own use whether you smoke it or not.