25Fort Mill, United States
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My self-summary
I am looking to move on to the next chapter in my life. I'm happy with who I am and I want to share that with someone else. I'm done with the immature bullshit and the games. I'm looking for a real man who is ready to share his life with me. In the bluntest terms, do not message me because you're looking for an easy lay. You will not find one in me. I am looking for a man who will appreciate me for who I am and what I strive to be every day. If you're that man, send me a message and we'll take it from there.

Read this and play close attention to 4 and 2:
If you understand why I asked you to pay attention to those points, message me.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm taking my life one day at a time. Right now I'm working on losing some weight so my outside can match the way I feel on the inside.
I’m really good at
Cooking, math, and finding the goodness in people. I am an optimist when it comes to new relationships, but I am not so blinded by the rainbows of a future we may have together that I don't see what's happening right in front of me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I'm trying to read more. If you have any suggestions, I love a good mystery that can keep me guessing.

Movies: I'm open to a lot of movies. I used to have the stomach for horror but I can barely watch it anymore.

Shows: don't even get me started. I watch a lot of tv and I watch a lot of shows. If you want to open that can of worms, just ask.

Music: Music always has and will have a special place in my heart. I like everything from rap /hip hop to metal to edm to just the tiniest bit of country.

Food: if you can find me a great plate of oxtail with peas and rice, plantains, and cabbage, I just might marry you. If you have never had it, it is my ultimate comfort food. If you can cook some delicious oxtail, then we're going to the church after our first date. =P Other than that, I eat everything (except olives!). I like to try new things. I have no allergies and I love to cook as well.
Six things I could never do without
A good meal
That's really it right there. As long as I have the love and support of my family and friends, there is nothing I can't accomplish in this world. But if I have to add another three things, two would be a phone and a computer with Internet access so that I can keep in touch with those important people in my life. And I guess the third thing would have to be electricity because the phone and computer probably wouldn't work without it, huh?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Nowadays I think a lot about race and the standards of beauty in this world. The media has something to do with that, but not everything. I've had guys say to me something along the lines of "you look good..are you mixed?" It may be weird but I get taken aback by it. It's like they're saying to me that I look good, but it must be whatever else is in me that makes it so..not the black part. That makes me think. Not just because I'm black and happen to think that black is a beautiful thing to be, but because my skin tone isn't what makes me. Even if I were mixed, what does it matter? My personality and my mind is what makes me. Although it's possible I wouldn't have these thoughts if my skin tone were different. But who knows?
On a typical Friday night I am
Working. If not, I'm catching up on shows on my dvr, watching Netflix, or playing xbox with some friends.
You should message me if
you will take the time to get to know me. If you are patient, open-minded, and a willing participant in this relationship (no matter what kind of relationship it is). I can only promise to do the same. Message me if you wanna teach me how to drive stick 😜 I always thought it seemed like fun but I don't know anyone who can teach me.

Btw..I don't know how we got to the point where you have to be the wittiest person in the first message, but don't underestimate the value of a simple hello.
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