37Charlotte, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a short, round red head, I write, I read, I work. I watch TV and movies. I love any music with a good beat I can dance around to. I AM a big girl, if you don't like big girls, that's ok, I understand. People are like sodas. You got to find the one that tastes good. Ok, maybe that didn't come out quite like I wanted it to.

I don't date often. Life just gets in the way. I bought my house in Charlotte so I'm pretty close to Uptown. I do not drive. I love dresses, I rarely wear pants, I never wear jeans. lol.

I'm funny, I'm smart, I'm a quick learner. I love to laugh and I love to have an actual conversation that doesn't center around sex. I'm not very political. I am Christian but you wont hear me drag on about it, I do not attend church. I love the color pink, and I love vintage anything. What makes me unique? I guess the fact that I am pretty honest. I'm an open book. I don't play games and I've never been good and understanding signals. Be upfront with me because I wont get your oh-so-subtle hints. lol.
What I’m doing with my life
I self-published three erotic novellas. I'm working on a romantic comedy now as well as a sequel to my first book, Sugar.

I'm also teaching myself how to cook. lol. I was never a good cook, but I'm a good baker. I'm learning though. As I type this I have a home made lasagna cooking.

I'm an extreme couponer. lol. Not the tv show but I rarely have a high bill at the grocery store.

Update: I've been at my new job for five weeks. It's...interesting. It snows so much here and the differences are astounding.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh. I enjoy blogging and writing. I also make diaper cakes. Couponing. I'm very good at couponing.
The first things people usually notice about me
My Hair, it's bright red and curly. lol. :) My smile. I smile big. I have a gap between my two front teeth so there you have that. Next would be my dry sense of humor. I can be a bit sarcastic.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
(a) Lori Foster - Too Much Temptation; Catherine Coulter - Sherbrooke Bride; Chelsea Handler - My Horizontal Life (so funny!) I'm pretty easy. I like romance and comedy.

(b) Serenity; Saved!; Eulogy; Pillow Talk; Any of the Die Hard movies. I love it when stuff blows up! Kiss Me Kate, Pitch Perfect (Don't judge me! LOL)

(c) Sherlock, Elementary, Ghost Hunters, Ghost Adventures, Haunted Highway, et al. lol. Criminal Minds, Girls, Storage Wars, The New Girl, The Mindy Project, Golden Girls, I Love Lucy

(d) Anything! Except most country and hard core rap. lol.

(e) Lasagne, Cheesecake, Tacos :)
Six things I could never do without
My sister and my new baby nephew
my writing
Diet Sundrop
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How my life didn't turn out the way I wanted, but I'm still happy with what I have.

I have learned over the years that I don't need a man to take care of me. I'm self sufficient, but I would like to have someone in my life who I can share things with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Watch tv or movies. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You know that scene in the movie...any movie really, just pick one, where the woman opens the door and her lover is standing there and he pulls her into his arms, crushing her body to his then kisses her so deeply she can't remember her own name? He plunges his hands into her hair knocking her pins loose and her hair comes tumbling down before he spins her and pins her to the door as he pushes it shut behind them?

That's what I want. I want passion and spontaneity. I want to be wanted and I want to be needed.
You should message me if
You want to talk?
The two of us