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My self-summary
Northeast transplant (central Massachusetts) whos heart has been in California for decades.

I am married to my lovely wife of 14 years (our anniversary is at the end of February), whom I have been with since 1996 (thats 20 years together folks).

We are happily married, and polyamorous. You can view her from the link below or on the right (Catreinas_Girl)

I am a biology focused college student, with a strong desire to also enter English for a second major
What I’m doing with my life
Working on some exciting things in the near future... life altering, mind boggling, huge impact things

College for medical pursuit and engineering. I aspire to do nano-technological work in the medical field.

I want also to attempt a Masters in Business Administration and/or Computer information (I have worked in the IT field for almost 25 years without any college coursework for it), and/or English Writing, as it is a passion of mine.
I’m really good at
Talking - sometimes too much so. I have a very horrid tendency to interrupt, especially when I am excited. I am working on that, and I apologize to anyone in advance for my inevitable intrusions on our conversations...

Listening - when I place my hand over my mouth, it is a sure sign that I know I might interrupt, but I sincerely and honestly want to just listen to you - whether I can relate or not. I really do enjoy listening and, when I am not being an ass and talking too much, being the one you can confide in.

Being spontaneous - I have a tendency to do things on a whim, much much more often than not. I enjoy it, simply because it means I am at least a little unpredictable. So would that make me predictably unpredictable?
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes are the first thing people usually notice about me, if we are talking face to face. I have also been told that my boobs and ass are particularly noteworthy.

I generally try not to allow first impressions to rule how a relationship proceeds.... there is a story behind that, a very funny one.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am a huge fan of anything Weis & Hickman, I am getting into Salvatore, and I just recently discovered Sherrilyn Kenyon. All of the previous are fantasy novelists. I am also a fan somewhat of Stephen King, but I do not like everything of his.

I am open to new books and genres as well - I have never read any Harry Potter book, though I have read the entire Chronicles of Narnia. I enjoy mysteries and drama on television, so I should probably like those kinds of books too, but I have never indulged myself. I -do- love to read though, very much so.

My favorite movies are probably the Matrix trilogy, the Star Wars trilogy and its prequel trilogy, TRON and TRON Legacy (I even tried to participate in the viral marketing campaign for TRON Legacy.... to no avail).

Music, I listen to everything except country (Catreinas_Girl is rapidly changing that), and hardcore rap/metal (that means no death metal, thrash metal, etc).

I love all kinds of food, and if I haven't tried it once, I am all for attempting to.
Six things I could never do without
My wife and those special in my life
My kids
My car
Life of all kinds - nature, space, etc.

I am sure I could not live without other things, above and beyond the obvious ones (even more so than life itself), such as air and blood, etc.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What my life has been like, what my life will be like in the future, how I am going to be remembered, or if I will be forgotten like the sands of eternity.

I also think a lot about what I am going to do to make sure I make an impact on others in a positive way, to help them live happier lives. What can I do to improve the lives of those around me, those in my community, my country, the world?
On a typical Friday night I am
A typical ANY day? Spontaneity - it runs my life. I could be doing anything at all, from out at a bar, to playing pool, to watching a movie with family, to sleeping. Nothing is typical for me, other than my computer, my car, and my family.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
There is nothing private about me. I am willing to admit anything, at any time, to any one.

Fuck the haters.
You should message me if
-- You can string more than five words together in a coherent sentence as an introduction. I will not respond to "hi, how are you" or "you are cute" style messages from people I do not know already. That said, I -WILL- respond to most anyone that puts some damned thought into their introductions.

++ You point out something in my profile that interested you or piqued your curiosity.

++ You have more than three sentences on your profile.

++ You have a photo. I hate my photo being taken, and even I have pictures here. Get over yourself... some people DO find you cute/handsome/pretty/etc.

++ You are ok with people who are not CIS. I am having surgeries soon enough, but that doesn't mean I do not own who I am.

++ You are ok with poly folk, you can deal with the fact that I am openly polyamorous, and that doesnt mean I fuck anything that walks.

If you are ok with that, then I can listen, talk your ear off, be a friend, a confidant, a shoulder, a geek, a comic, a politically incorrect bitch, or just about anything else.... .most of all, I can be a friend, or more. Message me, I am infinitely approachable =)
The two of us