Cayladactyl
32 Seattle, United States
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My self-summary
I’m confident but introverted, curious, kinky, playful, down to earth, a day dreamer, creative but not in a traditional way, fashionable, fitness focused, a dog lover, and happy. I love to learn - almost anything. I listen to a lot of TED talks and KUOW’s Speakers Forum.

I am in two polyamorous relationships with the best guys around.

I am the kind of person who doesn’t value shallow relationships much. I have few friends and amours but I deeply love them all. So whereas the sexual part of a relationship can be casual the friendship cannot – for me. Chemistry is what’s most important. I don't care about how much money you make, what bands you like, or what your political views are (as long as you're willing to debate them!).

However I can make some generalizations: The sexiest organ is the brain, I like people who take care of their bodies – bonus points if you’re a climber or cyclist! I’m attracted to curiosity, creativity, and confidence. I need open honest communication and someone who won't hesitate to laugh from the belly.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying it! I also design, build, and sell bike bags on etsy. Adventure drives me and I try to channel that love and experience into my designs.

I also spend a lot of time doing homework. I am a student studying graphic design.

I focus a lot on becoming a better person. I try to be honest with myself and either change or accept the parts of myself which are holding me back. Other than that I do normal stuff like hike, cook, rock climb, go to the dog park, socialize etc. I am a super fastidious person - if I'm stressed you'll find me vacuuming.
I’m really good at
Cooking, sprinting - wanna race?, being quiet, listening, playing with puppies, compromise, communicating, making lists, getting things done.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair probably, it’s usually something a little out of the ordinary. I don't know why but it's just a fun way to make a change or a statement. Or possibly my beautiful Surly Long Haul Trucker - her name is Rose of the Wind.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
National Geographic Magazine, The Prophet, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Hemingway, Silverstein, Kundera, Hesse and all of the lonely planet travel books.

I like science fiction, documentaries (about almost anything), Kung fu movies (anything Bruce Lee). I don’t like horror, thrillers, or romantic comedies unless they are old.

Star Trek, Twin Peaks, TED Talks - This Anerican Life, Stuff You Missed in History, Radiolab, 99% invisible, The Moth, Snap Judgment, StarTalk - Planet Earth (or any good nature documentary really), 9 to 5, and anything Miyazaki!

The Tallest Man on Earth, Beirut, Lovage, the Mountain Goats, Nicolas Jaar, Philip Glass, Tune Yards, the Shins, Belle and Sebastian and more. I don’t know why but I like to work out to reggae. I like to dance to Rihanna and other pop music. I also like random stuff like classical Indian music.

My kitchen is where I feel most comfortable. When I don’t know what to make I usually make something Mediterannian inspired, it comes the most naturally. I hate baking generally but I love making tarts because you can put anything in a tart. I love soup.
The six things I could never do without
Love
Sex
My bicycle
Carabiners
NPR
Coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm a day dreamer. In a serious way. Most of it is kind of weird, usually not important but always entertaining.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out drinking artisan cocktails, camping in the cascades - drinking wine from a platypus, snuggling with my two dogs watching a movie, climbing, etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm pretty open actually. I don't consider myself a private person. So should we meet ask me anything and I'll most likely divulge.
You should message me if
You truly think we would get along, either as friends or more. You are genuine and respectful, intelligent, sexy, confident and want to meet.

Or if you're all that X 2
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