Personally, I care, a lot. If I have a friend, girlfriend, family member, whatever, who cares about me, I will 100% of the time return the affection. I've been with people through the best, and worst times in their lives with a smile on my face the entire time. I would never date someone solely based on looks, substance/personality trumps pure physical attraction 10 out of 10 times.
Despite all of the sunglasses pics on my profile, I'm not a tool, and I am not looking to play mind games with anytime.
Typical boring stuff.
1) A job
2) My car
4 Warn weather (even if it's for a few months here in upstate NY ugh)
5) sleep, food, clothes etc.