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My self-summary
Steven Universe is co-parenting my inner child.

Neuroqueer, amab, Ashkenanzi-white human. They/them pronouns.

Some days I'm femme-y, some I'm just a genderless star creature that gets mistaken for a man.

Non-monogamous (Relationship anarchy - yay!). Too bond-forming for strictly casual sex and not interested in monogamous connections. Probably aromantic, or just very confused about romance because everything I thought was romance in the past was actually intense desire swiftly twisted into co-dependance.

Enjoyer of digital media and being outdoors.

I value mutuality, transparency, honesty and consent.

I am neurodivergent (I don't have a lot of use for labels... Several, but definitely not all, of the things on this list apply to me: and a trauma survivor and chronically ill.

Living with multiple invisible disabilities, I manage to do a whole lot within my capacity and am pretty happy being me!

I meditate, journal, self-educate and work on my own healing and liberation in a regular way. Love finding ways to be clearer, kinder, and changing thoughts that are not serving me/others.

Yah I do kink stuff I'm switchy/rolequeer

Not sure how I feel about the word "witch" but I'm like radically embodied spiritual in my own weird way and love rituals and the elements.
What I’m doing with my life
Practicing connecting in non-masculine ways.

Writing songs to myself that no one else will ever hear.

Eating things that don't make me feel terrible.

Moving my body around in different ways.

Settling into some amazing communities of people.

Supporting racial justice happenings.

Organizing and holding mutual support space with the Western Mass Recovery Learning Community.

Writing and dancing and humming.
I’m really good at
Cleaning up cat puke.

Observing sunsets and other events in the sky.

Fixing things and solving puzzles.

Teaching a group of people about something.

Being tired and watching tv.


Turning children upside-down.

Wearing sweatpants.

The first things people usually notice about me
Probably tall, white, pink glasses.

From there either gentle and friendly or socially awkward depending on whether I have recently run out of spoons but have not yet managed to get away from other people?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Wide range of things mythic/sci-fi/fantasy/literary.

What ever is up in my trans book group

Octavia Butler

Lots and lots of things. Creative dramas, superheroes, cartoons, anime, sci-fi... Favs are Avatar: The Last Airbender and, currently, Steven Universe.

trippy ambient, creative folk, femme pop, dancable-but-not-too-repetitive electronic music, political hip-hop, queer things that aren't weird noise music (sorry fans).

Restricted diet basically just meat, greens, and certain veggies (alas, no more onions or garlic). Am learning to love simplicity after being a creative cook for many years.

Complicated Board Games, Hearthstone, League of Legends, various RPGs, rougelikes, puzzlers, and indie thingies, weird queer experiments
Six things I could never do without
Wetlands and Moving Water
Gluten Free Chicken Nuggets
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What is the deal with why I have these difficult thoughts.

The damage done by white supremacy/colonialism.

How people make meaning around health, justice, community, and spirituality.

Writing. Projects. Unfinished tasks.

Why people close to me probably secretly hate me.

On a typical Friday night I am
Cooking. Crying. Resting.
You should message me if
Please do. Most strong connections I've had on here have been from the other person messaging me first.

You actively oppose the capitalist imperalist ableist white supremacist cisheteropatriarchy.

You want someone to be a tender weirdo with.

You like to walk in the woods or cook or dance or notice things, or laugh or see movies or meditate or get philosophic or make art or play games.

Cis gay dudes: I mean, I am flattered by your substantial attentions and many "likes," but almost definitely no thanks.

Queer and trans amab folx traumatized by cisheteronormativity: Yesssss please!
The two of us