Neuroqueer AMAB Ashkenanzi-white human. They/them pronouns.
Non-monogamous (Relationship anarchy - yay!). Too bond-forming for strictly casual sex and not interested in monogamous connections. Probably aromantic, or just very confused about romance because everything I thought was romance in the past was actually intense desire swiftly twisted into co-dependance.
Enjoyer of digital media and being outdoors.
I value mutuality, transparency, honesty and consent.
I am neurodivergent (I don't have a lot of use for labels... Several, but definitely not all, of the things on this list apply to me: http://p-3a-s-life-resources.tumblr.com/post/115347374289/atypical-autism-traits) and a trauma survivor and chronically ill.
Living with multiple invisible disabilities, I manage to do a whole lot within my capacity and am pretty happy being me!
I meditate, journal, self-educate and work on my own healing and liberation in a regular way. Love finding ways to be clearer, kinder, and changing thoughts that are not serving me/others.
Yah I do kink stuff I'm switchy/rolequeer
Writing songs to myself that no one else will ever hear
Eating things that don't make me feel terrible.
Moving my body around in different ways.
Settling into some amazing communities of people.
Supporting racial justice happenings.
Hanging out and holding mutual support space with the Western Mass Recovery Learning Community.
Writing and dancing and humming.
Fixing things and solving puzzles.
Teaching a group of people about something.
Being tired and watching tv.
Turning children upside-down.
From there either gentle and friendly or socially awkward depending on whether I have recently run out of spoons but have not yet managed to get away from other people?
What ever is up in my trans book group
Lots and lots of things. Creative dramas, superheroes, cartoons, anime, sci-fi... Favs are Avatar: The Last Airbender and, currently, Steven Universe.
trippy ambient, creative folk, femme pop, dancable-but-not-too-repetitive electronic music, political hip-hop, queer things that aren't weird noise music (sorry fans).
Restricted diet basically just meat, greens, and certain veggies (alas, no more onions or garlic). Am learning to love simplicity after being a creative cook for many years.
Complicated Board Games, Hearthstone, League of Legends, various RPGs, rougelikes, puzzlers, and indie thingies, weird queer experiments
Wetlands and Moving Water
Gluten Free Chicken Nuggets
The damage done by white supremacy/colonialism.
How people make meaning around health, justice, community, and spirituality.
Writing. Projects. Unfinished tasks.
Why people close to me probably secretly hate me.
You actively oppose the capitalist imperalist ableist white supremacist cisheteropatriarchy.
You want someone to be a tender weirdo with.
You like to walk in the woods or cook or dance or notice things, or laugh or see movies or meditate or get philosophic or make art or play games.
Cis Gay dudes: I mean, I am flattered by your substantial attentions and many "likes," but almost definitely no thanks.
Queer and trans AMAB folx traumatized by cisheteronormativity who are wanting to take some time to get to know and trust each other: Yesssss please!