34Philadelphia, United States
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My self-summary
At first, I am shy, but am told I am outgoing once I know the person. I tend to be direct ( I am working on my tact) and avoid playing games with other people. With me what you see is what you get. I work in the non-profit industry and like to volunteer. I'm pretty laid back and have a good sense of humor. My view of life is that everything is a learning experience and I have very few regrets. I prefer the warm weather and like most outdoor activities. Regarding relationships I strongly believe in equality and want a best friend. I choose love over money and will quickly leave a relationship if I feel controlled or my sense of freedom is infringed upon. My friends describe me as a silly, funny, intelligent, caring, and honest, which they think is funny too. I am looking for a relationship that will end in marriage.
What I’m doing with my life
Running a housing program and working as a mental health therapist

taking classes for fun because I like to learn

Hanging out with my friends

I’m really good at
listening to people and making the best out of any situation
The first things people usually notice about me
the color of my hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books-The Giver, short stories by Anton Chevok, The Ones Who Walk Away from Omelas, The Story of X, Siddhartha
movies-Old School, The Basketball Diaries, Requiem for a Dream, the life of David Gale
Music-too many to name mostly rock
Six things I could never do without
the summer weather
my family and friends
my car because I like to travel
my gps
and other things that i will not mention at the moment
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the motivation for different human behaviors

the future and helping change the world into a more positive place

This website...why people are on here if they are rated very selective with who they talk to, if sometimes the guy is waiting for the girl to message them first when then keep visiting your profile, which men are on here just for sex, ect.

also how to spell den nen nen (see below)

Why okc rated me as less independent when I'm very independent and have been told that by numerous people as well
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually hanging out with friends
Exploring different events and activities in the city
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sing "den nen nen nen den nen nen nen, Meat Man!" when I make tacos
This is the internet of course I'm not going to admit anything private
You should message me if
If you do NOT own a gun. (I've decided to try online dating again so I hope this time I will meet people who don't own guns, desire to own a gun, or have any weapons designed to hurt other people. This includes people who are in the service...killing another person is not honorable

You are looking for a serious relationship

Have good conflict resolution skills
The two of us