37Stroud, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
To strive, to seek, to find and not to yield
-Ulysses, Alfred Lord Tennyson

I'm a geek, a lover, often rather silly. I'm motivated in odd ways but primarily through the acquisition of joy.

Should you choose to meet me you'll find a genuinely compassionate, often confused, wonderfully smart guy with an occasional penchant for strangely configured beards and moustaches.

I like cycling, playing computer games, reading fiction, learning how to negotiate my way through working and social life, being surprised and causing surprise in others.

I like to help people where I can and often base what I do on how best to achieve that.

I prefer to meet in person than chat on OKC for extended periods of time. I have many internet friends and finding more isn't why I'm here.

Make yourself known. We're going to have a great time.
What I’m doing with my life
I believe I want to fix everything, this often leaves me tired and frustrated. That said when I do fix something my joy is unbounded.
I’m really good at
Cycling, geekery, doing what I shouldn't, getting shit done, comma separated lists, massages, grand gestures, mischief, chaos, love.
The first things people usually notice about me
Beard or moustache depending, glasses, Grey-blue eyes. A well spoken voice with a slightly generic accent. Cheeky fucking grin.
Six things I could never do without
The people I love, Technology, A good pair of boots, Contact, Enjoyment, Subversion
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Fictional videos to songs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Very much in the hands of fate.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Figuring out what to put here. Some things are better as surprises.
You should message me if
I would like to hear from you if you are a strong, intelligent, fun person. I'm always up for meeting new friends.

Ultimately the real reason you should message me is that you fancy an interesting companion for a chat over coffee. I fucking love sitting somewhere, putting the world to rights and if that sounds great to you we should probably do it together sometime.
The two of us