Somehow, despite my many and manifold failings, I'm ethically non-monogamously non-exclusively married to someone I love deeply. And here I am, still on OKC, staying in touch with friends and meeting new people with whom to go out and stay in. As is the excellent woman I'm married to. Should you find this state of affairs unacceptable then surely I can be of no interest or use. If your personal code remains inviolate, then Hello.
I'm a mainly civilised liberal artsy-bookish writer somehow lodged in new media thing, interested in what you have to say and how you feel, looking for allies to steal horses with. That's a metaphor. Horse crime is bad. Together we can stamp it out. I can keep up one end of a conversation, but two seems excessive. House-trained, and I leave both the seat and the lid down. I offer both Tea & Sympathy and, if your co-workers or family provoke you sufficiently, Coffee & Frowning. Let's get out and do stuff, and occasionally just stay home and hide.
In retrospect, this will all seem like a Plan.
I don't have "A Type". Who you are is vastly more important that what you do or where you're from. Rational self-confidence beats attitude, and character beats looks. I admire people who are good at being themselves and aspire to enjoy their lives without being self-centred. I value kindness very highly. You don't have to be bookish or artsy or expensively educated, but it'll help a lot if you're curious: interested people always seem to be more interesting.
I brush up well, am slightly handy, and lightly musical. I'm at least a bit interested in nearly everything. I don't look that much like my photos in real life, but they are at least all actually of me. I am roughly human-shaped, and theoretically likable.
I'm looking for fun, smart, sexy, mainly sane friends and more-than-friends to go out/stay in with. Have you any opinions or curiosities about the above? Then apply within...