54Birmingham, United States
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My self-summary
I am looking for a serious, long term (possibly leading to marriage) relationship. I want someone that thinks with there mind, that can move beyond the superficial. I believe I am a beautiful 54 year old lady but my looks will fade in time and my body is not that of a 20 or 30 year old. I live in the real world where the average woman comes nowhere close to resembling the supermodel that the average man seems to want. So, if there are any real men out there that live in the real world, that want a real woman and a serious relationship, please continue on. I would be excited to hear from you.

I am a 54 yo single, white, Christian, woman. In general, I am a straight forward kind of lady. I say what I mean and mean what I say. I try to act like the Suthun Lady I was raised to be but sometimes...maybe most of the time...the sahrcastic witted fun side comes out.

I enjoy concerts, the opera, plays, museums, books, antiques, and traveling, just to name a few things. And guys, I know a lot of you don't like some of those things. The good news, you don't have to. I have friends, a mom or a daughter that enjoy doing them with me if you don't want to. As to outdoor activities, I enjoy walking, hiking, the beach, driving through the mountains, and bocce ball. Further, I think I would like to learn to kayak, paddle board, and maybe even golf. I am old-fashioned in a lot of ways, especially when it comes to dating and getting to know my gentleman friend. I enjoy being treated like a lady, having doors opened for me, being picked up for dates, and being wined and dined on those dates. I'm not high-maintenance; the dates don't have to be expensive just not cheap (as in fast food) either.

I value a man who is a Christian that strives to walk his talk. I don't expect perfection because no one is! Generosity, chivalry, integrity, a good communicator and a good sense of humor are traits truly valued. I am looking for a special man who, besides the above characteristics, is intelligent, patient, laid back and loves to travel, whether a weekend trip to the beach or mountains or a week or so out of the country. I like a man that is a strong kisser and hugger. A little romance goes a long way with me.

Thanks for reading my profile. I hope to hear from some of you full, complete sentences. No one word sentences please.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying my grandson, my adult children and working!
I’m really good at
I am good at cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
Quite a few people tell me my skin is beautiful. Does that count?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read just about anything, anything from mindless reading to serious literature. I just love to read!

I like a lot of different movies however, no horror movies. I love old black and white movies too.

As to TV, I like The Big Bang Theory (it's about the only comedy I watch), House of Cards, Game of Thrones, Homeland and others.

I like most genres of music. I grew up in the 70's so I really enjoy some of the classic rock that came out of that era. Also while growing up, I listened to classical music (because my mom played it). Pretty much the only music I'm not fond of is rap music but I will admit to rarely liking a rap song or two. Well, ok, so I like music. It's really a song by song choice as to whether I like it or not.

I love food! I enjoy cooking, especially if I have someone special to cook with. My biggest issue, I hate cleaning up after. I consider it a necessary evil. I love French, Italian, Chinese, get the drift.
Six things I could never do without
Air conditioner
Air Conditioner
Oh, and did I mention an air-conditioner? (or a cooler climate.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My grandson!
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with my adult children, friends, or just hanging out at home enjoying some peaceful quiet time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
A lady does not divulge private matters publicly.
You should message me if
After reading my WHOLE profile, you would like to get to know me better.
The two of us