26Minooka, United States
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My self-summary
I want to be in the middle of life; the balance of everything. I know Life comes with Anger and Happines, Hate and love, Pain and Pleasure, Rich and Poor, Deceptions and self- fullfillment. Life woud be better if you can just keep balance without experiencing the extremity of either one.

I don't care for Manicures or pedicures. I dont care for the top high brands nor the purses. I dont care if I go out in the street with messy hair or no make up. I dont care if I get dirty or if I learn about changing the tire on my car. I dont care what the world has to say about me. I dont care about what kind of car you drive or how much you make bi-weekly. I dont care about how many guys you beat up or if you cried before. I dont care if you call me ugly or pretty. I don't care if you are a virgin or have a big package.

I dislike how people show pity over you, I dislike people that do something out of spite. I dislike how people are so competitive about life, about who has more and who has the greater thing whatever happened to modesty. I dislike how people always do a favor only if they benefit out of it. I dislike when people label themselves to traits they can not fulfill. Honestly, if you were real, faithful, honest, a GOOD person we wouldn't have to hear it from you we would be able to see from how you portray yourself. I dislike people that want to talk to you when you have a problem they don't care they are just nosey as ****. I dislike when people doubt their faith. I dislike how money is necessary and it buys for a better lifestyle however it should not be for our greedy self. I dislike revenge anyone ever heard of being the bigger and better person.

I only want to know the logic behind every word you say. I want to know What you think about? How you think about things? How well you keep a promise? How committed you are? I ONLY WANT TO KNOW WHO YOU ARE?

I came to realize that people build bridges that eventually wear out and fall apart. NOTHING IS FOREVER. I also came to the conclusion that the first thing people with identify you with is your name therefore, If at the end of a conversation you learn my name consider yourself lucky. I came to realize that you never are the same you continue to change everyday. I came to realize that people dont know how to fight for love they give up when hard times come along. I came to realize that anyday can be your ending day. The sun will always rise up. People will come and go. There will never be peace.

*Not to be racist but I dont find dark black men attractive *
What I’m doing with my life
Determined To finish school. I am currently attending a community college and plan on transferring to an univeristiy to earn a Bachelor's in Accounting. Aiming toward bookkeping but my final step is Auditor.

Trying to find the motivation and mentality to start living healthy. A girl is always looking for a little improvement and possibly more self-confidence.

In the process of learning how to love myself :)
I’m really good at
Pushing people away :)
Being persistent with Love.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile. I have big eyes. I laugh a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like reading non-fiction books, such as Run Nicky Run, A child called It, I wish you were never born and memoirs are probably my favorites.

I love comedy movies hehe who doesnt enjoy a good laugh, Love to get spooked so horror films makes the list, I am a girl so I am indeed a fan of Romance lol. I like a bit of everything my most recent favorite movie is End of Watch has all the elements of a good movie.

Shows I spend time watching court cases with my parents lol, Switched at birth, anything else is just a glimpse of here and there.
Add In I like watching the bears plays with some wing action heheh. Currently enjoy watching the bulls not a fan lol but I do like watching the sport. I am a fan of boxing but damm do I hate paying the price lol

Love to go to sporting events I like the crowd Finally went to a cubs game and a sox game not a baseball fan lol I also went to a basketball game omg they are sooo fun lol cant wait to do it again lol Planning on going to a hockey game I heard they are fun :)

Music lol omg I am a fan of everything lol except for heavy metal and country or jazz and blues lol I guess that doesnt mean I live EVERYTHING.
Nas, Kanye West, J. cole, Lupe Fiasco, Mobb deep, Curren$y, Drake, Unkown prophet, talib kweli, living legend, Macklemore, The Dream, Jamie foxx, Ne-yo, Mary j. blige, Emeli Sande, Alicia Keys, Yanni, Prince Royce, Romeo Santos, Arcangel, Plan B, Rakim y- ken -y
Six things I could never do without
I Cant achieve in life If I dont have faith in myself or nor can I do anything without having something to believe in like God.

I cant live without Air.

Can't go a day without happiness or a smile it keeps my sanity alive.

Music is indeed a salvation.

Money is a greed the root of all evil but It pays and supplies for the necessities in the world.

Family-- people who support you and push you to do better.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future. I contemplate about how I will manage to stay stable in the future. I think about How I will overcome my fears. Think about what I want to do with my life. Try to set new goals to achieve. Think about What im supposed to do with my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either at work or at home watching a movie with the sisters; Sometimes I try to do hw but its friday lol. I used to hit the club with my friends or go to a lounge but I think I am over that phase trying to focus on what's important and that is my education.
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