50Costa Mesa, United States
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My self-summary
I am not looking to meet someone at this time.

I'm intelligent, humorous / entertaining, drug-free, respectful, straight-forward, financially secure, and easy going every chance that I get. I take great pleasure in making my partner smile (and laugh; to feel "warm" and fulfilled).
I'm looking for an exceptional woman. If I have your interest and you may qualify, please read on ... then write to me.

Chemisty may be difficult to describe, but it's easy to recognize.
Chemisty is invisible to the eye, but perceptible to an observer.
Chemistry can never fill a container, but it can certainly fill a room.
True Chemistry is beyond this material world, but not beyond our reach.

** I know there is alot written here. It provides in depth insight to the man before you. If you need to start with the cliff notes version, skip down to the "Favorites" section. Otherwise, feel free to read on from here.

I'm a real good guy. I'm not perfect, but regarded as much better than average. In addition to what's listed above, I'm uncommon, loyal, trust-worthy, dependable, considerate, sacrificing, in good health, and passionate when appropriate. I cherish family and friends. I look forward to doing some / more international travel in the coming years.

My partner should be fun-loving, interesting, reasonably drama-free (and fully drug -free), easy going, accepting of others, and ... stimulating.

I look forward to finding that partner with whom to share and propel life. I'm looking to validate my belief that treating a woman with respect, consideration, appreciation, and honor is a winning formula. (It seems there is not enough of this being applied in today's society.)

Looks are relevant, chemistry is important, and stimulation is critical. I'd like to discover my best friend to share our lives. You'll be fortunate to be my partner (as I should feel same about you). She will be sexy to me (and she will know it).

Help me to see why you and I may become a long term "us".

For some reason, I am struck by a woman that looks cute in a hat, makes a statement with boots or shoes, or demonstrates confidence with the clothing inbetween.

I know what it takes to ignite magic and how it feels when someone is touching your soul. I know what it's like to look in your partner's eyes and have the rest of the world just melt away. I believe in second chances and I'm out to make the most of mine. No reason to settle for less than AMAZING.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm making the most of today and building for a better tomorrow while looking for someone to share the entertainments and pleasures of life.
I’m really good at
... get to know me and determine for yourself.
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile and curly hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Condensed Self Summary and I spend a lot of time thinking about

As I undersand it, a woman wants a respectful intelligent (smart and witty) guy that can make her laugh (humorous and entertaining). This fellow should be financially secure, attractive (that is in the eye of the beholder), ground shaking with regards to "intimacy", and confident, but not arrogant. Considerate of others and charming would be "a plus".

These are all the characteristics and traits that countless people use to describe me. (ok, well the "intimacy" thing; that would not be known by "countless" people - haha)

SCENARIO --- I come home after a long a grueling day at work.
You greet me by saying, "My day was tiring. I don't feel like cooking the meal we had planned nor going out for dinner either."
I respond without hesitation, "ok, is there something that I can make for us that you would like tonight?"
You reply, "well, I'm actually in the mood for chicken and white wine; but we have neither in the house."
Again, without hesitation, "If you can wait for the time it takes me to run to the store, crack the wine, and cook the chicken, I'd be happy to make the most of the evening for you (before I even sit down for a moment)".
This is the truth. Now ask yourself, how would this scenario have played out in your last (good) relationship. If it would have played like this, then I don't know why you are single either; you may have lost a good man.

Your satisfaction is more important to me than my own.

So "Why am I single?" Well, if you have an opinion or would like to help me figure out that answer, please let me know. Yet, consider that if we fail to determine the answer, we may live a fabulous and happy life forever after.

Good Luck on your own search.
Six things I could never do without
(... "never (?) do without" ... for too long ... in no particular order)

My Sons (2) - (They are most often with their mom.)

The excitement of potential

Trust, Honor, Respect, Love, Honesty, and Chemistry - those count as just one thing : )

The warmth of the sunshine


Stimulation - both mental and physical

Well, # 7 would be the staples of life - Food, Water, Shelter, Oxygen, Sex (prefer "great" will settle for "good"), Conversation, etc.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
... how will life play out for my sons, myself, and those that I care about; what can I do to make the most of it for all parties?

What can I do to show myself to be ready and worthy of this exceptional partner that I am seeking?

What can I do today to make the day better for someone else?

What can I do tomorrow that will be fun?
On a typical Friday night I am
{Isn't this site about what I will or want to be doing rather than what I've "typically" been doing in the past?}

In the future, I'd like to be sharing the joys of each night with my partner.

Having a good meal would be nice too. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
{no idea}
Ask me anything.
I only answer honestly and to the best of my knowledge.
You should message me if
... you don't blend in to your surroundings.
... you’re interested to feel special and appreciated, by someone that will add fun and laughter to your life.
... you prefer to be active rather than lazy and to be outside rather than inside.
... you do NOT have a goal to be asleep by 8:46 pm each night.
... you are thinking, "Wow, what is such a terrific guy doing on this site? Is he for real?" (Yes, I am; try me. I'm guaranteed to match this profile and pictures.)
... you realize that by having never met me, you wound up on this site; but talking to me for 10 to 45 minutes, may lead you to an amazing life (AND get you off this site).
... you believe that you can stimulate my mind and body; if you can stimulate my soul as well and you'll likely be the grand prize winner!
The two of us