32 Royal Oak, United States
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My self-summary
Just a girl who is in love with love, knowledge, happiness, honesty and community. I'm sweet, open minded, funny, liberal, ESFP, pragmatic, caring, sex positive, bright, intuitive, flexible, cute, silly, and sensual.

I am:
An extrovert and an empath.
A cat herder and kitten whisperer.
A gypsy and I can't seem to ever satisfy my wanderlust.
A skeptic.
A sucker for a great story.
Loyal to a fault.
In love with the 6/8 time signature.
Your poly ambassidor. So much so, I'm thinking of getting business cards made...

I have stars on my arms and in my eyes. Puns makes me giggle and intelligence turns me on. My favorite color is glitter. I know far more about Sailor Moon that I probably ought to.

My patronus is Catbug - The feeling of bass rattling your bones at a concert is the best feeling on earth. Symmetry brings a smile to my face.

I want to dance. I want lust and love and a smattering of romance...

I am freethinking, funloving, and full of moxie
What I’m doing with my life
Lots of board games and cooking. Karaoke. Being crafty. Going to concerts and music festivals. Playing flash tower defense games. Changing my hair color. Creating tabletop RPG's about cats and irrational thoughts (not at the same time).

Making huge life decisions while sitting beside a 30ft tall rubber ducky.

I've moved around a bunch. Newly moved near Detroit. Atlanta, Sarasota, Pittsburgh for 5 years, Cleveland for 2. This is my first time living in the midwest. I'm from Appalachia (app-uh-latch-a), please forgive me as I don't call it a "tree lawn".
I’m really good at
Listening, baking, singing, Power Grid, snuggling, fostering kittens, reading people, pop culture (you want me on your trivia team, trust me), being honest. I give a decent massage and my internal clock is amazing. Picking names that are one letter longer than OKC allows for usernames.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and/or laugh.

I also get tons of compliments on my hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Hornby, Gaiman, Tolkien.

Movies - Once, The Dark Crystal, John Waters Period, Princess Mononoke, Inside Out, Only Lovers Left Alive, Hot Fuzz, Jackie Brown, The History of Future Folk, Labyrinth, High Fidelity, Flash Gordon. I love watching movies, good or bad.

TV - Orphan Black, Steven Universe, Futurama, Over the Garden Wall, Broad City, Spaced, Rick and Morty, Luke Cage, Stranger Things, Difficult People, Daredevil, Gravity Falls, The Get Down, Agents of Shield, Bob's Burgers, Peaky Blinders, Slings and Arrows, Babylon 5, Doctor Who, Cowboy Bebop, The Adventures of Pete and Pete.

Other assorted medias - Bravest Warriors, Katamari Damacy, Welcome to Night Vale.

Music - Doves, The Clash, The Dear Hunter, Nickel Creek, Ezra Furman, The Mars Volta, Frank Turner, Man Without Country, Hozier, Vampire Weekend, CHVRCHES, Passion Pit, Moderat, A Silent Film, The Police, Death From Above 1979, Lucius, Streetlight Manifesto, Bastille, M83, Depeche Mode. Oh, please share new music with me or take me to a concert.

Food - Thai, Mexican, Indian, Pepperoni Rolls, tempeh, Swedish Fish, malty beers (but I finally appreciate hops), ice cream.

Board Games - Alien Frontiers, King of Tokyo, Power Grid, Carcassonne, Quarriors, Keyflower, 7 Wonders.

RPGs - Monsterhearts, Dogs in the Vinyard, Ganakagok, Fiasco, Dread.
The six things I could never do without
the night sky
ideas to learn
getting to run around barefoot outside every now and then

Bonus: that feeling you get when you put on your sweater and it still smells like the lover you were with yesterday.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where will life will lead me next?, do I need another tattoo?, morality in a nonreligious lifestyle, Can the sheep strategy actually win a game of Settlers?, interpersonal relationships in groups.

also, this:
On a typical Friday night I am
Possibly gaming, sometimes dancing, or watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have MS. I have the good kind (R/R, like President Barlett on The West Wing) and have pretty minor effects from it, but it's there.

One day, I want to live in a giant house, surrounded by friends and lovers alike, sharing everything and always having someone to share with...*sigh* I seem to have far more need for human contact than most.

I've been collecting Hello Kitty since I was 4.

I'm a super lucky girl and OKC has been unbelievably good to me. I'm currently with two amazing partners. My husband vergilzen takes care of all my pun and bass needs and EatCauliflower is the bestest bunny in the whole wide world. I'm lucky to have a large group of friends who are poly as well - including my lovely metamore crankyliberal. I am completely open to adding new partners (serious or casual) to my life as long as we're all honest.

Also, the best message I've ever received on this site is:
"Hey baby, what do you say we get some 40s and some chicken wings and go hang out in a parking lot?"
You should message me if
You want to chat, stargaze (or show me where's it is possible around the city), watch bad movies, cook a meal together, spin me around (but not too much) at a contra dance, take a road trip, make a new friend, talk about cartoons, karaoke, introduce me to a new beer, cuddle, watch good movies, play board games, swap music, go to a concert, go to a museum or gallery, show me around Detroit (I'm still learning the area), teach me how to crochet.

Disclaimer: Friends can be lovers, but lovers must be friends.

Queer and feminist politics and world views required.

Also, if you need to use the word "discreet" in your profile to explain your situation, don't even bother messaging me.