32Christchurch, New Zealand
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My self-summary
I live on music, coffee, and books. I'm terribly honest. I don't do drugs (other than caffeine and alcohol) and smoking is not something I'll ever do.

I like unusual people; I have some unusual interests myself. I really value independence, excitement, helping others, diversity, and people who have their stuff sorted. I'm also a huge self improvement fan and love doing little experiments to see how I can improve myself and what I do.

I'm a mental health clinician; and I'm damn good at it. I love my job; every day I know I'm doing something meaningful, making a difference. I never have to worry that I'm wasting my life, because I'm helping other people make their lives better. It's challenging as all hell; but it's satisfying.

I like to surround myself with positive, open minded people, who are interested in improving themselves and are open to new ideas and options.
What I’m doing with my life
Saving for a house
Going on adventures
Social gym time
Improving other people's lives
I’m really good at
Sorting my own shit without relying on others to do it for me.
The first things people usually notice about me
The smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite books... probably anything by Jim Butcher. I like fantasy novels, if they're well written. My favorite movies are the Addams Family, Avengers, Iron Man (all of them) etc. I'm a big geeky Marvel fan. I love Scrubs and Firefly and Castle and Dollhouse and Star Trek Voyager. I get addicted to shows, particularly geeky ones. I think all you need to make your day awesome is the right soundtrack, so music is pretty important. I'm trying a lot of new stuff right now, fortunately I know some people who really know their music. Oh yeah, food. Asian food is freaking awesome. I like it even better than italian.
Six things I could never do without
My phone! I use it for everything. Organizer, writing, camera, and to hold whole encyclopedias of medicine.
Sleep, sex, Netflix, friends, and something to laugh about.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how I should really use skillful communication to solve my problems instead of buying wine.
On a typical Friday night I am
Potentially having a movie night at home; at a workshop; at a party.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Actually, that could cover quite a lot. Hmm. I guess you'll have to ask.
You should message me if
You enjoy the unusual and distinctive, and you have a good sense of humour. Humour is very important.
The two of us