31 Christchurch, New Zealand
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My self-summary
I live on music, coffee, books, icecream, wine and whiskey. I'm terribly honest. I don't do drugs (other than caffeine and alcohol) and smoking is not something I'll ever do.

I like unusual people; I have some unusual interests myself. My primary values are autonomy and freedom; that means I make my own decisions for myself, and I live according to my own dictates. If you try to change that, you'll get frustrated fast.

I'm a mental health clinician; I see and deal with fucked up shit like you would not believe. I love my job; every day I know I'm doing something meaningful, making a difference. I never have to worry that I'm wasting my life, because I'm helping other people make their lives better. It's challenging as all hell; but it's satisfying as fuck.

If you're into the weird and wonderful, you're intelligent, and you have an appreciation for diversity, we'll probably get along great.
What I’m doing with my life
Saving for a house
Talking to interesting people
And learning shibari.
I’m really good at
Sorting my own shit without relying on others to do it for me.
The first things people usually notice about me
The smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite books... probably anything by Jim Butcher. I like fantasy novels, if they're well written. My favorite movies are the Addams Family, Avengers, Iron Man (all of them) etc. I'm a big geeky Marvel fan. I love Scrubs and Firefly and Castle and Dollhouse and Star Trek Voyager. I get addicted to shows, particularly geeky ones. I think all you need to make your day awesome is the right soundtrack, so music is pretty important. I'm trying a lot of new stuff right now, fortunately I know some people who really know their music. Oh yeah, food. Asian food is freaking awesome. I like it even better than italian.
The six things I could never do without
My phone! I use it for everything. Organizer, writing, camera, and to hold whole encyclopedias of medicine.
Sleep, sex, Netflix, kinky friends, and something to laugh about.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how I should really use skillful communication to solve my problems instead of buying wine.
On a typical Friday night I am
Potentially having a movie night at home; at a workshop; at a party.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Actually, that could cover quite a lot. Hmm. I guess you'll have to ask.
You should message me if
You enjoy the unusual and distinctive, and you have a good sense of humour. Humour is very important.