59Fresno, United States
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My self-summary
I am still work in progress. Looking for same. I still love to talk, love to laugh and love to watch classic movies. I am really not into sports, tent camping, fishing, hunting, hiking, sports cars or racing, but there are many fun events or places that we can go to together.

I am looking for a mature man (45+) with experience in love and life.

If you are a cub looking for a cougar, do not message me. I am not at all interested in any sort of relationship with a much younger man, and definitely not looking for casual sex.

Sorry but I guess I have to highlight this, since I get so many 20somethings who seem to think I need whatever they have to offer. I really don't need it or want it.

I am an attractive, honest woman looking for a good man who wants a companion in life. The man I look for needs to be honest in his expectations of me and for me. I am a bit of a homebody, but I do like to get out and do things on the weekend or holiday/special occasion. Love to travel when time and funds permit.

Please, no drama, no anger issues, no religious or political fanatics. If you want a Christian or someone with conservative values, please pass me by.

I will not respond to messages from very young or very sexually aggressive or suggestive people. If you are married or separated, even if you say it's an open relationship, do not message me, I will not respond.

I try to respond to all the messages I get, because I wish to be polite, not because I find you attractive.

Please don't presume that I will change myself to fit what you want. Moreover, I do not want you to change who you are for me. While I am hoping for a long term relationship, I am not looking for marriage or a live-in relationship, ever. I have a wonderful life, I just want a fun companion/friend/lover to share it with.

I am a free-thinker, and a free spirit Universalist Unitarian minister who needs to be loved for what I am, not how I look or who I know.

Don't take this as a challenge to your religious beliefs, because it's not Ok to think I will change for you or that I need to be "saved" by something. This would be you Christians. Figure it out. If your profile says you are Christian, especially if you are serious about it, do not message, you won't get a response.

I have a lot to offer the right man and if we get something going, I'll do my best to make sure you never regret the decision to give us a chance. My Ideal is a mature man with experience, who is comfortable with his life and is looking for a partner with experience to share. I am educated, articulate and into current events and I love intelligent conversation on a huge variety of topics.

I also have a wicked sense of humor and I warn you, I can be VERY nawty when I am in the right place with the right person at the right time.

In return, I expect my man to want to spend time with me. Yes, we will have an awesome, passionate intimate relationship. We will also need to have and respect each other's wants and needs. I will make a place in my life for you, as time and our bond grows, and I need you to make that same consideration for me.

Be real, sincere, and show up. Honor your words by actions. Do what you say you will do and be mindful that your action or lack of action are important to someone besides you.

If you just like my pics, I'd love to hear from you. I put a great deal of time and thought into them, I appreciate the feedback you'd care to give.
Please send me a message at chixiemary at yahoo dot com if you like.
Thanks for checking out my profile!
What I’m doing with my life
Moving forward. Looking towards watching my grandchildren grow up. Playing with my two rescue dogs, Abby and Chloe. We walk miles every day, just for fun, and I love what the exercise does for my gorgeous legs and ass...ets. ;-)

420 friendly, and you need to be also.

Since I Work full-time weekdays, and play on weekends, I love going out for drinks or spending time with a friend (or lover) evenings and weekends. Living in the Tower District, there are dozens of great places to meet and spend some quality time together.

I love taking a long weekend to relax and take a day trip to the coast or to an event somewhere close by. If there is a cushy RV involved, I love road trips and city-slicker style camping too.
I’m really good at
Lots of things. Organization, crafts of all sorts, sex, jewelry craft and repurposing and reusing things.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am always talking and laughing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Growing up I was an avid reader of books. Fiction, non-fiction, mystery and Sci-fi with anything and everything included. Later I got into religion and philosophy, Shakespeare and Homer, D&D but never video games.

These days I never read a book, but rather a screen with something interesting on it about 18 hours a day. Work takes up 8 hours of screen time. Then after work I look at a screen for movies (TMC) or reading and chatting, FB with my kid and grandkids or dating sites.
The internet is the world's biggest playground with the best and most inclusive library ever.

Movies I love are classic ones, no matter what else I might be doing, TMC is on in the background. I love the movies on a variety of levels. The sets, costumes, furniture and technology are fascinating. The cinematography, lighting, technology and production techniques are also addictive to the Nerd in me.
Six things I could never do without
My family, my dogs, my friends...way more than six right there
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What do I want from life? Love? Sex? Friendship? Laughter? Good company? Is there a 420 friendly sweet guy who wants to spend time??
On a typical Friday night I am
Working late. Then I have a nice walk with my two dogs to relax after a day spent sitting in front of a computer. I spend the rest of the evening relaxing.

Sometimes I meet someone for a drink or dinner. Or I spend 420 time with a good classic movie and a bag of chips to unwind from a stressful week.

Living in the theater, restaurant historic district where there is always something to see and somewhere to go, options for the evening are endless.

If you send me a message, maybe we can meet up for a drink.
Any evening, not just on a Friday. ;-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm like Mae West, I feel nudity detracts from the face and the figure. So don't ask for nude photos, it ain't happening.
You should message me if
If you read my profile and are interested. You want to 420 and chill with someone with a vocabulary and varied interests. If you like my pics and want to let me know ;-)
The two of us