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My self-summary
These whole things about writing about yourself are freaking hard. I'll tell you one thing, I'm putting everything out on front street. Tell the truth and you can't be labeled a fraud. I am an open book, if you want to know more just ask and I will tell you. You can either send me message here or use kik. My kik handle is the same as my profile name.

***Update: Dec 27th 2013. As if today I have switched to the Blu brand ecig. I know a few of you who won't go out with a smoker because of the smell and it taste, I do have to report that there is no smell and no aftertaste according to the wife. So I changing my smoking status to occasional but keep in mind I kind of do. Smoking for me has mostly been a routine and something to do with my hands and mouth. So I am using this to help quit and will be doing the step down in strength till it's at zero.***

***Please if I send you a message, please respond back whether it be a "Not Interested" or "I am Interested." Just not responding is pretty rude and how am I suppose to know, I don't read minds.***

What can I say I am a bisexual man who is married to a great woman with 3 wonderful kids. My wife and I are polyamorous, which means in layman's terms "an open marriage." We have been together for 18 years and married for the last 8 of that. I am looking to have some fun right now and if anything serious comes out of it so let it be. I'm looking for a friend first and a lover second. I do have to make plans for dates and such because of my kids. I love watching movies, playing pool, bowling, hanging with friends and I will try anything that is asked within reason. I'm up for walks and hikes, they just have to be pretty easy because I have two bum knees. I hope that's not a deal breaker.

I have no ideal person I am looking for, you just have to be cool, have some of my same interests and be ok with me being in an open marriage. As I said friends first and lovers second. Yet I do know that there are the type of people on here that are just wanting a FWB type of relationship and those are fine as well. Just let me know what you are looking for and we can make it work.

I heard about the site on an episode of the "Sex Nerd Sandra" podcast on the Nerdist Industries. So yes, I am a podcast nerd and listen to SIR (SmodCo Internet Radio) and Nerdist Industries, but that just means I am informed on pop/nerd culture and entertainment news.

Also I am a huge Star Wars and Star Trek fan. At the moment I am engaging in making costumes to be able to join the 501st and Mandalorian Mercs. Both are public service clubs with a Star Wars theme.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a welder by trade and training. I also am an amateur screen writer and director. I am trying to open my own custom fabrication shop and I am trying to get scripts I have written produced.
I’m really good at
I am a jack of all trades, so I am good a a lot of things.
Complimenting the beauty I see in people.
Being sarcastic
Saying what is on my mind
Quick witted quips - the little voice in my head that acts as a filter for my mouth has a bad case of ADHD.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have asked people that, but their answers are always unclear and they say they are just drawn to me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Doctor Who - Tom Baker (4th) and Peter Davidson (5th) I never did get into the new ones but I am wanting to try again.
NCIS orig & LA
DC Nation cartoons
Warehouse 13
Stargate SG1, Atlantis & Universe
American Chopper
History Channel
Walking Dead
Comic Book Men
TNA Impact Wrestling
NJ Devils Hockey
(and the list goes on and on. If I put all the shows that I watch You'll be scrolling for hours)

Horror Films
Repo: The Genetic Opera, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, A Nightmare on Elm st, Back to the Future trilogy, Star Wars, Star Trek, House of a 1000 Corpes...
(Again Too many to mention, you'll get tired of scrolling and move on to someone else, I own just about 2000 DVDs)

The Vampire Chronicles- Anne Rice
Most stuff by Stephen King
The Hobbit and Lord of the Rings - JRR Tolkin
(I'm not a big reader, the subject matter has to interest me otherwise I will put it down and forget about it)

I like most music from classical to metal, country to show tunes. Then there is always "Weird" Al.

I like most foods and will at least try it once to see if I like it. Yet I do gravitate towards Mexican and European foods.
Six things I could never do without
My family are 4 of those things I couldn't do without, beyond that there is nothing else. You make-do with what you got.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to go about getting things done, ie...scripts, projects etc, etc

Why with the emoji emoticons on the iPhone is there an emoticon for a pile of shit? Plus it has eyeballs, WTF.💩

Which script I should focus on to finish and get made. How to get said script produced and to a distributor.

Starting my own movie review podcast. I have a lot of movies and would love to start a podcast with some friends to discuss all the aspects of the movie from script to camera choices.

What dive bar to go to with friends or on a date. There are a few good ones in Solano county like; My Office and Chris' Club in Vallejo, Darlas in Vacaville or 707 Lounge in Fairfield. If you have a dive bar you like to go to let's go there.
On a typical Friday night I am
I am either out with friends, on a date or at home with the family.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am an open book, if you ask me I will tell you.

I can say that the one thing is that I have never been with a women who has breast implants. All of the women I have been with have been all natural. I have always been curious and would love to find out what they feel like.

I am a sucker for redheads! If you are a ginger I most likely am drooling 😍😘
You should message me if
You want to have a good time, are not weirded out about me being married and in an open marriage, you like what you see or you just want a good friend and cool people to hang out with.

Also if you have kik and want to get a hold of me that way, my handle is that same as my profile name here.
The two of us