46 San Diego, United States
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My self-summary
- I am sarcastic and enjoy witty exchange.
- I enjoy trying new things. Recently I started kayaking with my dog (he is not very helpful but he enjoys it very much).
- I like my alone time. However, I’m not a hermit who saves his pee in jars...nor is “alone time” a code for spending this time honing my wizardry skills in World of Warcraft.
- I vacillate between being responsible with my finances and splurging on toys, trips or just good times

My date:
- You want to share your secrets with me....and mine with you. Equally so, you want to share your dreams and fears.
- You have your own interests....but you will invite me to participate...and won’t be mad if I decline.
- You enjoy exploring our differences as much as our similarities.
- You will surprise me from time to time. I don’t mean this in a jump-out-of-the-bushes at me sort of way...but other than that, I hope you can figure this out without any prompting.
- You also enjoy your alone time....but also sans pee filled jars or W.o.W.
- You let me act like myself and you tell me that I am enough. This sounds simple, but this one above all others has proven to be the most elusive. Well...maybe the baby name is the most elusive, but this is a close second.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a challenging and enjoyable job, but it does not define me...and I am looking for ways to work less and live more. So, I try to travel more, enjoy time with my dog and my friends. Always picking up a new hobby (and usually dropping an old one).
I’m really good at
- making people wonder if I am being serious or am I joking?
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't have a social filter. That is to say, if I think something is interesting or funny, I tend to say it. These tend to be viewed as inappropriate or crass by some people. Clearly I know when to keep my mouth shut about such things, but I really am not a fan of self-censorship and really tend to just let things fly out and accept the consequences.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I read something on my kindle almost every night, but usually some easy reading series, although I do get into deeper stuff too . Favorite author is Tom Robbins. Not TONY Robbins.

Movies: I watch the popular stuff and of course I have seen the latest Star Wars, but finding an independent film (in Hillcrest theater or online) is what I really enjoy. And as an Easter Egg for ya, I have an IMDB page of my own because I have an Associate Producer credit for a documentary about one of my favorite bands...can you find me?

Music: anything except Country. Having said that, if we click on all levels except that you adore Country...then we can revisit this topic.

Food: The spicier the better.
The six things I could never do without
Squatty Potty
Rambo (my dog)
Comfy bedding
Crystal Hot Sauce (a.k.a. Louisiana's Pure Hot Sauce)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sri Lanka. I'm pretty sure that I'll go there in May for vacation.
On a typical Friday night I am
Home or out. It really depends on the type of week and what Saturday has in store for me. To be clear, when I am dating someone I tend to go out more....but when I am not dating I am quite happy to be at home alone reading or watching the idiot box.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I prefer to call eggplant by the more sophisticated name of "aubergine".
You should message me if
You want a genuine guy. I am exactly what I pretend to be.